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What to expect in couples therapy after infidelity…
In couples therapy after infidelity, therapists often draw from various theoretical approaches to address the complex dynamics and emotions involved….
So… what should you expect in couples therapy after an infidelity?
What is High Infidelity?
High infidelity typically refers to a pattern or prevalence of extramarital or extra-partnership affairs within a relationship, marriage, or otherwise sorta committed, sorta monogamous relationship.
What passes for acceptable and unacceptable infidelity for some couples in certain American subcultures is sometimes quirky, and may require an open and curious stance on the part of the couples therapist...
Unveiling 9 female Mate Poaching tactics…
Mate poaching is the attempt to attract or steal a person already in a committed relationship. It’s a phenomenon observed across various contexts.
Let’s discuss the specific tactics employed in the workplace by mate poachers, shedding light on the underlying evolutionary drivers behind such disruptive and amoral behavior…
How do affairs start? Here are 11 factors…
Workplace affairs can start for various reasons, often from personal, situational, and relational factors.
While there isn't a one-size-fits-all explanation. Here are 11 factors to consider about workplace infidelity…
How to start an affair…
It is crucial to acknowledge that starting an affair is a decision with significant ramifications, not only for the individuals involved but also for their partners and families.
Before delving into the intricacies of how to start an affair, it is imperative to consider the ethical, emotional, and psychological implications of such actions.
Managing office affairs from a C-level perspective…
An affair or workplace romance can become a touchy and awkward subject to handle, and it makes sense that you’d rather stay out of it.
However, a permissive environment will eventually impact office morale and productivity.
Permissive environments foster both an unpleasant and uncertain environment for co-workers.
Has anyone stayed friends with their affair partner?
Recently, I was asked a fascinating question… Has anyone stayed friends with their affair partner?
Wow! That could be anywhere from a somewhat harmless to a profoundly self-absorbed line of inquiry. Here’s why…
How are affairs discovered?
How are affairs discovered? I’ve always been fascinated by learning about that moment.
Couples sometimes call it D-Day. They usually mean Discovery Day…, and they rarely mean Disclosure Day.
Research and studies on infidelity have found that affairs are often discovered through a combination of behavioral cues, technological clues, and gut feelings.
Will my affair partner come back?
It’s well known how women having affairs with unattainable men flock into individual therapy, often lamenting getting dumped.
Research on the re-ignition of affairs suggests that while some affair partners do reconcile and rekindle their relationship… the likelihood of this happening is relatively low.
What you get when you marry an affair partner…
There are challenging implications for marrying your affair partner.
While your mileage may vary… 5 common themes play out in this challenging situation…
Why do cheaters downgrade? Here are 5 reasons…
As a Marriage and family therapist, I often need to grasp why my client, in conducting an affair, sought out less satisfying relationships.
This is commonly known as downgrading, cheating down, affairing down, or, most cruelly, slumming…
Here are 5 reasons why it happens…
The reddest flag of them all?
This one behavior triples the likelihood you’re being cheated on…
But don’t get your knickers in a twist… you probably got this already…