Narcissism—a word that’s become synonymous with self-centeredness and entitlement in today’s world. But in psychology, narcissism represents a specific set of personality traits that researchers study to understand individual behavior and social dynamics.

The Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI) has been one of the most widely used tools for assessing these traits in a non-clinical setting. And now, the NPI-13 provides a faster yet reliable way to evaluate narcissism.

There’s a new twist on why students (and professors!) are collapsing under the weight of academic burnout. A recent study published in Acta Psychologica has revealed an intriguing—if slightly chilling—insight: personality traits from the infamous “dark triad” (Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy) might be setting up certain students for a crash course in exhaustion, thanks to their intense focus on appearing flawless. Let’s unpack this twisted love triangle of burnout, manipulation, and academic life.

Part of human experience is investing our time, energy, and love into building a meaningful connection with our partner.

This investment is part of what makes long-term relationships so precious, but it can also create a trap known as the "Sunk Cost Fallacy."

This psychological concept explains why people sometimes stick with decisions, behaviors, or relationships simply because they’ve already put so much effort into them — even if they’re no longer beneficial.

In couples therapy, exploring the Sunk Cost Fallacy can help partners see when past investments might be preventing them from making positive changes.

In relationships, even the most loving intentions can sometimes lead to surprising results.

One partner may try to “fix” a problem or help their spouse in a way that feels supportive, only to see the effort create new challenges. This phenomenon is sometimes called the "Cobra Effect," named after an unintended consequence that famously occurred in colonial India.

It’s a reminder that sometimes, when we try to resolve one issue, we accidentally make things worse.

In couples therapy, the "Cobra Effect" becomes a helpful concept to discuss because it can open up conversations about how intentions, actions, and outcomes may not always align in the ways we expect.

By exploring this effect, couples can discover how to channel their good intentions into actions that truly support their relationship. Let’s take a closer look at how this happens and what couples can do to avoid some common relationship “cobra traps.”

In times of stress, even the strongest couples can slip into unconscious roles, with one partner taking on a “parent” role and the other falling into a “child” role.

This dynamic, called “parentification,” often emerges subtly. Over time, though, it can create a power imbalance, leading to resentment, dependency, and even erosion of intimacy.

Understanding how and why partners fall into these roles, as well as how to break free from them, is essential for a healthy, balanced relationship.

In this post, we’ll explore the “parentification” trap, how it can affect romantic partnerships, and practical ways couples can restore equality and mutual support.

When one partner sacrifices their career for the other, it can lead to unspoken resentment and feelings of loss.

While it may seem loving at first, the effects of career sacrifices can linger, affecting a couple’s connection, satisfaction, and personal identity.

This post explores how couples can address career sacrifices with empathy and respect to prevent long-term resentment and foster a healthier, more supportive relationship.

Meet Laura and Ben, a couple who faced hidden struggles after Laura made career sacrifices to support Ben’s demanding new government job across the country.

Their story, shared here, highlights the importance of discussing unspoken losses, validating each other’s needs, and reconnecting as a team.

Recent research has unveiled fascinating connections between dark personality traits and criminal behavior, suggesting that specific traits like Machiavellianism play a major role in recurrent criminality.

But to truly grasp these findings, it’s essential to consider them within a larger cultural context—particularly through the lens of Cultural Narcissism.

This framework sheds light on how society’s evolving values might be amplifying certain dark personality traits, leading to an environment that, in some cases, promotes manipulation, deception, and self-centered behavior.

As artificial intelligence (AI) continues to evolve and weave itself into the fabric of daily life, its effects on communication and emotional intimacy in romantic relationships are becoming increasingly noteworthy.

While AI offers a range of conveniences—from automating tasks to providing emotional support—it also presents challenges that can alter how partners connect and communicate with one another.

This post delves into the dual-edged nature of AI in relationships, exploring its impact on emotional intimacy, trust, and strategies for couples to maintain genuine connection in the age of intelligent technology.

Economic factors have always played a role in shaping American intimate relationships, but the recent surge in economic inequality presents new challenges that are deeply affecting modern couples.

Financial stress doesn’t just impact bank accounts—it seeps into the very fabric of relationships, affecting connection, trust, and long-term stability.

In this post, we’ll explore how economic inequality and financial stress affect intimate relationships, their impact on parenting, and practical strategies couples can use to face these challenges together.

In the age of remote work and digital flexibility, many couples are finding that the lines between work and home life have become dangerously blurred.

While the convenience of working from home has been a blessing for many, it also brings unique challenges that impact relationships in profound ways.

One of the most pressing issues today is the erosion of work-life boundaries, which can lead to emotional exhaustion and diminished connection between partners.

In this post, we'll explore how these blurred lines contribute to burnout and how they also affect parenting. Finally, we’ll offer a few ideas on how couples can navigate these challenges while preserving intimacy and family harmony.

As a marriage and family therapist, I’ve come to appreciate the complexities that accompany long-term relationships and the challenges that arise when these partnerships unravel.

In recent years, one significant trend has emerged with implications for the emotional and cognitive health of aging adults: gray divorce.

This term refers to the dissolution of marriages among those aged 50 and older, a phenomenon that has been steadily increasing and, with it, raising pressing questions about the future well-being of those involved.

What if certain “dark” personality traits could actually help us navigate mental health challenges?

According to a recent study in the Journal of Personality, the Dark Triad traits—narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy—don’t just create difficulties for others; they also shape how we cope with mental health issues like depression, anxiety, and stress.

The Dark Triad has always been associated with social abrasiveness and manipulative behavior, but this study suggests that these traits’ influence on mental health is more complex.

The findings challenge the conventional view of these traits as purely destructive, revealing that each has a unique relationship with mental health, with narcissism even offering some surprising emotional resilience.