Welcome to my Blog
Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.
Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.
Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.
Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.
Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel
P.S.
Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.
- Attachment Issues
- Coronavirus
- Couples Therapy
- Extramarital Affairs
- Family Life and Parenting
- How to Fight Fair
- Inlaws and Extended Families
- Intercultural Relationships
- Marriage and Mental Health
- Married Life & Intimate Relationships
- Neurodiverse Couples
- Separation & Divorce
- Signs of Trouble
- Social Media and Relationships
- What Happy Couples Know
7 Ways to navigate inconsolability after a deep, interpersonal betrayal
In this blog post, I’ll explore some effective strategies you might consider to help you navigate through your inconsolability. It’s top of mind for me because I have 3 clients currently struggling with the emotional aftermath of harsh, intimate betrayal.
How long does a parental estrangement typically last? Wrong question!
How long does a parental estrangement last? 5 years? 10 years? It’s the wrong question… here are the factors that may abbreviate a cutoff…
What makes an adult child cut ties with mom?…Research says you’ll get two different answers…
Estrangement from your mother is a relatively rare phenomena.
The research revealed that only 6% of adult children reported any levels of estrangement from their mothers.
So why does the research read like they all have the same mother?
New research on adult parental cut-off…why do daddy issues dominate?
There’s new research on the nature of estrangement between adult children and their parents… why is daddy so difficult?
Longitudinal study: Teens who love their parents live longer…
New research indicates something incredible. Loving homes encourage longevity? Why?
New research on workplace affairs and social ostracism from Pakistan
Workplace romance evokes different responses in different cultures.. in Pakistan you could brcome socially excluded and shunned by your other co-workers…
Can burnout be healed by a satisfying relationship? New research from Russia, with love…
New research from Russia claims that the happier you are in your intimate relationship, the more resilient you are to suffering from workplace burnout… but only if you’re a man?
New insights on family dinners in 2023
Research has clearly shown for decades that family dinner time is a sacred space for intimate connection. But now families are struggling to experience family dinners as a regular event…why?
Fu*k couples therapy… waste of time and money…what can we do instead? …Here are 12 things…
Fu*k couples therapy. It’s too damn expensive. I still expect you to tell me what I can do to be less miserable… maybe I can try this at home?
2 Findings from an Ashley Madison study may change how we look at infidelity
A brand new study reveals 2 new stances toward infidelity by users of Ashley Madison… a love for their partner, and a lack of guilt for their infidelity. How should couples therapists respond?
4 Robust defense mechanisms that can complicate your conflicts
Some defense mechanisms are particularly robust, and can cause lots of meaningless suffering. Do any of these sound familiar?
4 Primitive defense mechanisms that can screw up your relationship
We all are defensive from time to time, but what are the most primitive defense mechanisms that can really screw up a relationship?