Welcome to my Blog

Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.

Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.

Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.

Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel

P.S.

Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.

 

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Generation Apathy: How Parental Disengagement Shapes Youth Politics…

A recent German study has uncovered a significant link between parental political disengagement and the apathy their children feel towards politics.

This phenomenon appears to be particularly pronounced in close parent-child relationships. These findings shed light on the growing disinterest in politics observed in democracies worldwide…

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Adult Children of Divorce: Understanding Their Silent Suffering…

Adult Children of Divorce suffer too.

There is a robust cultural belief that adult children, once successfully launched, should be indifferent, or at the very worst, non·plussed by their parent’s divorce.

I encounter this belief in couples therapy regularly.

Emerging research explains that nothing could be further from the truth.

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3 Essential ideas for raising grateful kids in an entitled world…

Research suggests that parents who let their children take the lead in easy or moderately difficult tasks help them develop self-regulation skills and independence, contributing to their success later in life.

As Stanford University professor Jelena Obradović explains, "Too much direct engagement can come at a cost to kids' abilities to control their own attention, behavior, and emotions."

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The Emergence of Infant Consciousness: Insights from Neuroscience…

Neuroscience continues the exploration of infant consciousness… and that exploration continues to lead us to ethically challenging territories.

Until the 1980s, medical practices routinely subjected newborns to surgeries without anesthesia, under the assumption of their lack of awareness.

Recent research challenges the prior, prevailing notion that consciousness only arises after birth or within the first year of life.

A meta-review of studies suggests that some form of consciousness may emerge even before birth, particularly towards the end of the third trimester…

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Are We Having Fun Yet?

As a marriage and family therapist, it's crucial to explore how human priorities impact personal happiness and family dynamics.

A recent study sheds light on the significant role of fun and autonomy in promoting overall well-being, with implications that resonate deeply within families…

Are we having fun yet?

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How to raise bad kids…

Research suggests that the quality of parental relationships during childhood can significantly impact later behaviors toward others.

Humans who experience emotionally strained or abusive relationships with their parents tend to exhibit lower levels of kindness, generosity, empathy, and prosocial behavior…

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