Welcome to my Blog

Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.

Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.

Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.

Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel

P.S.

Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.

 

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OCD Misconceptions

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is often misunderstood as merely being overly meticulous about cleanliness or safety.

However, OCD is a complex mental health condition characterized by unreasonable fears (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions) performed to alleviate these fears.

Let’s consider OCD, including its symptoms, types, causes, and treatments, and distinguish it from Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD).

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Can your career choice also protect your brain in old age?

As a couples therapist, I have unusual additional training. I also have a M.S. in Labor Studies.

I often explore how different aspects of my client’s lives, such as work and career choices, affect their life-partner relationship and overall well-being.

One fascinating area is the long-term impact of a brain-stimulating career on cognitive health.

Recent research suggests that your job could significantly determine your brain's fate as you age.

Let's consider how a career that challenges your mind might help you stay sharp well into your golden years…

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Love at first sight…finally some real science

A recent study showed that over 33% of singles reported experiencing love at first sight, and men are 10% more prone to the feeling.

However, managing the end of the honeymoon phase is often a challenge.

The French have a phrase…Coup de Foudre…A sudden, unexpected event, especially an emotional one; love at first sight….Here’s the science…

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What is Affair Recovery?

What is affair recovery? Is it possible to recover from infidelity? How do you begin to address such a profound breach of trust?

Healing from infidelity is possible.

But it requires an emotional, spiritual, and mental determination to recover into a fully-functional restored intimacy stubbornly. Here’s a roadmap…

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Understanding the fundamentally decent but angry man

Science tells us that the angry man must learn that he will not get what he wants by the vehicle of expressing anger.

Attention wives and girlfriends. He’s gotta understand that anger is the wrong tool for the task of influencing you.

If you can show him how you can more readily accept his influence, when he is not being angry, you can help him (and you) to communicate more effectively. Here’s how…

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Children of infidelity

Our culture values fidelity. When parents break it, they break their vow not only to each other but also to their children.

Children of infidelity want to be part of a loving family… but once they’re adults… can they truly trust their intimate partner?

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