Welcome to my Blog

Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist with an international practice.

I write about what happens to desire, attachment, and meaning once the early myths stop working.

Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I'm glad you've found your way here. I can help with that. I'm accepting new clients, and this blog is for the benefit of all my gentle readers.

Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection

Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what's useful back into your life and relationships.

And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, l'd love to hear from you. Let's explore the scope of work you'd like to do together.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.

~ Daniel

P.S.

Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you're curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that l've been sharing for years.


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Twice-exceptional students

Twice-exceptional adults refer to individuals who possess both outstanding intellectual abilities, often in the form of giftedness, and one or more disabilities or challenges, such as ADHD, dyslexia, or autism spectrum disorder.

Research on this population has gained momentum recently, shedding light on their unique strengths, challenges, and needs.

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Am I a neurodivergent female?

Neurodiversity can be a characteristic of humans of all genders, but females have often been underrepresented and overlooked in both research and clinical practice.

Historically, diagnostic criteria and assessment tools have been based on male presentations of neurodivergent traits, leading to the underdiagnosis or misdiagnosis of females.

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What is Acquired Neurodiversity?

Acquired Neurodiversity refers to neurodevelopmental conditions or differences acquired later in life due to external factors, such as brain injuries, illnesses, or trauma.

Unlike innate neurodiversity, which is present from birth and typically refers to conditions like autism, ADHD, or dyslexia, Acquired Neurodiversity occurs due to events that happen after birth.

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What Actually Matters When a Couple Discovers They Are Neurodiverse

The most important work with a newly cognizant neurodiverse couple is not insight.

Insight is rarely the problem.

Most couples arrive already fluent in explanation. They know their patterns. They can narrate the history.

They can tell you exactly how the last argument unfolded and why it ended badly.

What they cannot yet do is manage the structural consequences of two nervous systems that process reality differently.

When narrative speed outpaces processing capacity, conflict stops being about facts and starts being about interpretation.

That is where things break.

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