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9 Signs That Your Partner Doesn't Respect You (And Why That Matters)
Respect is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Without it, the emotional connection starts to break down, leaving you feeling hurt and undervalued.
If you're sensing something isn't quite right, it may be time to take a closer look at how your partner is treating you. You might need to re-assess your relationship boundaries.
Here are nine signs that your partner may not be respecting you—and why that matters for your emotional well-being.
10 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Into You Anymore (And What That Means for Your Relationship)
Relationships can be challenging, especially when you feel your partner isn’t as engaged as you are. If you’re questioning whether your partner is emotionally invested, you might be noticing subtle signs of detachment.
Here are 10 key behaviors that could indicate your partner isn't as fond of you as they once were—and what that means for your relationship.
Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt: Understanding Bullying, Aggression, and Gender in Child Development
Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt is a renowned psychologist and researcher whose work has significantly shaped how we understand bullying, aggression, and mental health in child development.
Her research, grounded in both evolutionary and social psychology, highlights the deep emotional and psychological impacts bullying has on children and adolescents.
Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone passionate about children's well-being, understanding Dr. Vaillancourt’s work can provide valuable insights into creating a kinder, more inclusive environment for all kids.
Amy Wax’s Ideas on Family, Race, and Class: A Broader Conversation
Amy Wax’s ideas on family structure, middle-class values, and the intersection of race and class offer a strong critique of what she sees as the erosion of traditional values in American society.
Amy Wax is a law professor at the University of Pennsylvania known for her strong and often controversial opinions on topics like race, immigration, and culture.
She has sparked lively debates with her arguments about the importance of certain cultural values, but her views have also drawn criticism, with some accusing her of promoting divisive ideas.
Despite the controversy, she remains an active participant in public discussions, engaging in conversations that touch on complex and sensitive issues.
While her views spark much debate, it’s important to engage thoughtfully with her arguments and explore the broader research that has contributed to this conversation.
Outsourcing Family Care: How Upper-Class Couples Are Shaping a New Approach to Marriage, Parenting, and Family Care
For some families, the idea of what it means to “take care of the family” is undergoing a significant transformation, especially in upper-class circles.
With the demands of high-profile careers, managing wealth, and maintaining social capital, many couples are turning to a model of family life where professional outsourcing plays a central role.
Whether it’s hiring nannies, private tutors, elder care providers, or household managers, the outsourcing of family care allows upper-class families to pursue their ambitions while ensuring their loved ones receive the best possible care and attention.
Strategic Partnership Marriage: The Future of Love, Wealth, and Legacy
Marriage has long been viewed as a union built on love and companionship. But for an increasing number of couples—particularly in the American upper class—there is a shift happening.
The strategic partnership marriage is a rising trend that blends emotional connection with a shared commitment to building long-term financial stability, social status, and legacy.
This approach treats marriage as not just a romantic endeavor but a joint venture, where partners work together like co-CEOs to manage their family’s wealth, parenting strategies, and social positioning.
In this post, we will dive deep into the strategic partnership marriage model, explore how it’s shaping modern relationships, and why it’s poised to dominate the future of marriage.
What Traits Make Someone Morally Exceptional?
As a family therapist, I’ve spent a lot of time pondering what makes a person “morally exceptional.”
Is it their ability to empathize, their sense of fairness, or maybe their knack for handling those chaotic PTA meetings with grace?
Turns out, these questions are at the heart of a new study published in the Journal of Personality, which sheds light on the traits that separate morally exceptional individuals from the rest of us mere mortals.
And guess what? Empathy, guilt-proneness, and moral identity top the list—so, maybe your grandma who never lets anyone leave the dinner table hungry was onto something all along.
Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Mascara
Let’s face it: makeup has been around as long as people have had faces to put it on.
Cleopatra had her eyeliner; Marie Antoinette had her powdered wigs; and today, many of us can't leave the house without a touch of concealer (unless you’re a psychopath, but we’ll get to that later). So, what's behind our love affair with blush, mascara, and lipstick?
Apparently, your makeup habits might have a little something to do with your personality, and in some cases, the darker corners of it.
A recent study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior had a fascinating take: it seems that certain personality traits—particularly narcissism, extraversion, and (drumroll please) psychopathy—may influence how much makeup women slap on before heading out the door. Because nothing screams “I need admiration!” quite like contouring for a casual coffee run.
Americans Are Falling Behind in Life Expectancy: But Why?
In the global race for a long life, Americans are trailing far behind.
A recent study published in BMJ Open reveals that the United States has the shortest life expectancy among six high-income, English-speaking countries.
This alarming trend raises serious questions about the state of health and healthcare in the land of the free.
The study, led by Jessica Ho from Penn State, analyzed life expectancy data from 1990 to 2019 across the United States, Canada, Ireland, the United Kingdom, Australia, and New Zealand.
The results are not pretty: Americans consistently lag behind their peers, with U.S. women living an average of 81.5 years and men just 76.5 years in 2019. In comparison, Australians are living significantly longer, with women reaching up to 85.5 years and men 81.4 years.
Do Changes in American Family Structure Reflect Social Decadence and Decay?
The American family has changed significantly in recent decades, and this evolution has sparked an intense debate.
While some view these changes—like cohabitation, single-parent households, and delayed marriage—as signs of progress, others argue that they reflect a deeper societal issue.
Thought leaders from various fields have expressed concern, suggesting that these trends might signal a decline in the shared values that hold society together.
However, this conversation isn’t always driven by religious or moral dogma; many of these critiques come from sociologists, economists, and political theorists who argue that the decline of traditional family structures could lead to long-term societal challenges.
Navigating Relationship Burnout Post-Pandemic: Insights from Reddit and Social Science
The COVID-19 pandemic forced many couples into uncharted territory, leading to emotional strain and burnout. As we begin to emerge from this unprecedented period, many couples are looking for ways to reconnect and rekindle their relationships.
On Reddit, users frequently express the exhaustion they feel from prolonged togetherness and share stories of navigating relationship burnout. Rebuilding intimacy, communication, and personal space are common challenges that post-pandemic couples face.
How Different Types of Early-Life Adversity Shape Brain Development: Insights from New Research
Recent research published in Biological Psychiatry reveals intriguing insights into how different types of early-life adversity can lead to unique patterns of brain development.
The study found that children who experience emotional neglect tend to have younger-looking brains.
In contrast, children exposed to more severe adversities, such as caregiver mental illness or socioeconomic hardship, often show signs of older-looking brains. These findings shed light on how diverse early-life experiences shape the brain in distinct ways.