Marriage and Mental Health Daniel Dashnaw Marriage and Mental Health Daniel Dashnaw

Disrupted sleep in your 30s and 40s? There are consequences…

Greetings, gentle reader. Are you sleeping ok?

Did you know that, for some of you, how you’re sleeping now might be carving grooves into your cognitive destiny?

As you’ve probably noticed, this blog has an ongoing focus on sleep science.

A recent study has suggested that disrupted sleep patterns that are established in your 30s and 40s might impact memory later.

Read More
Family Life and Parenting Daniel Dashnaw Family Life and Parenting Daniel Dashnaw

Couples therapy for infertility

Couples therapy for infertility typically grapples with communication deficits, an impaired decision-making process, and issues with power dynamics and gender politics.

Couples who have crossed the medical threshold to avail themselves of all that medical science has to offer sometimes need to unpack their frustrations in couples therapy…

Read More

What is Portia Polygamy?

"Portia polygamy" is a term that's not often heard, so let's explore its meaning a bit more.

Portia polygamy describes the pattern of engaging in multiple, successive marriages.

The name evokes the idea of a series of marital relationships, much like the character Portia in Shakespeare's play, who navigates various complex relationships, albeit without multiple marriages.

Read More
How to Fight Fair Daniel Dashnaw How to Fight Fair Daniel Dashnaw

The neuroscience of perpetual marital problems

One of the outstanding contributions of neuroscience and Gottman’s research is the notion of perpetual vs. solvable marital problems.

When a science-based couples therapist is assessing a new couple, it’s crucial to ascertain whether their problems are solvable or perpetual.

Gottman’s research shows that 69% of relationship conflict is about perpetual problems.

Read More
What Happy Couples Know Daniel Dashnaw What Happy Couples Know Daniel Dashnaw

Secret to Feeling 10 Years Younger: It's All About This Simple Habit…

Imagine feeling a decade younger in just two days. It might sound like a dream, but according to a groundbreaking study conducted in a sleep lab, getting enough sleep can make this dream a reality.

The research reveals that adequate sleep isn't just about feeling refreshed—it's a crucial factor in feeling and looking younger.

Read More
Neurodiverse Couples Daniel Dashnaw Neurodiverse Couples Daniel Dashnaw

How to manage an Asperger’s Meltdown

From a neurotypical (NT) point of view, an Asperger’s meltdown is when an Aspie experiences a temporary loss of emotional control.

It is a state of profound overwhelm in which no new information can be processed.

They typically don’t last long and are often due to specific stimuli such as excess external stimulation, compounding stressors, or abrupt and significant change. Here’s what you need to know…

Read More