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When Narcissists Grieve: How to understand their complex emotions
Grieving the loss of a loved one is a deeply personal and often excruciating experience.
But what happens when a narcissist is faced with such a profound life event?
The grieving process for folks with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can be markedly different from that of others, shaped by their unique psychological makeup.
Understanding how narcissists grieve can shed light on their behavior and offer pathways for ways to offer compassion and support.
The Hidden impact of relationship quality on depression
Approximately 16% of people in the United States experience depression at some point in their lives.
New research reveals a startling connection: folks with the lowest quality relationships are at double the risk of developing depression.
Two critical relationship patterns contribute to this increased risk:
Having an unsupportive partner and having a partner under social strain.
Social strain often involves the pressures of working hard to achieve a certain lifestyle, such as owning a house, driving a nice car, or taking vacations.
Weird things psychopaths do
Psychopaths enjoy an undeserved reputation as evil geniuses. In reality, they aren't all that smart, though they can be surprisingly subtle, especially when they’re female.
Their willingness to lie and manipulate to get what they want is chilling, yet intriguing.
In this blog, I’ll review a dozen psychological studies on psychopathy, revealing their personality traits, dark secrets, and why some psychopaths can be relatively successful.
When Two Narcissists Fall in Love: a match made in mirror heaven
Imagine a world where mirrors are worshipped, selfies are a form of currency, and admiration is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
Now, step into the realm of romance between two narcissists.
Yes, it's a thing, and it's as fascinating as it is complex.
As a couples therapist, I've seen the dizzying highs and tumultuous lows of such relationships. Let's dive into this dazzling dance of love, ego, and self-adoration.
Unmasking the Nice Guy Narcissist: 12 traits to watch out for
Let’s discuss the elusive Nice Guy Narcissist.
This charming specimen seems perfect on the surface—attentive, caring, and oh-so-polite. But as you look deeper, you might notice that there's something off about this seemingly perfect gentleman.
Let's dive into the 12 traits that define the Nice Guy Narcissist, shedding light on how to spot him early on.
12 Traits of Narcissism
Narcissism, often misunderstood and misrepresented, is an annoying and problematic personality trait.
While the term "narcissist" is frequently thrown around in popular culture, true narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a serious condition that affects how sufferers perceive themselves and interact with intimate others.
Understanding the 12 foundational traits of narcissism can help identify and address this disorder effectively.
Here, we’ll explore the 12 most prominent traits of narcissism, supported by social science research.
Understanding the Single Inventory Narcissism Score (SINS)
The Single Inventory Narcissism Score (SINS) is a psychological tool designed to measure narcissistic traits using just one straightforward question.
Unlike the more extensive Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI), which includes multiple questions, SINS offers a quick and simple assessment.
Why does this one question work so well in detecting narcissism?
Estranged Father-Daughter Relationships
Estranged father-daughter relationships represent a complex and often painful dynamic within families.
Estrangement, defined as the physical and emotional distancing between family members due to unresolved conflicts or significant differences, affects a substantial number of families.
Let’s explore these estranged relationships, and consider the latest research and insights from thought leaders in the field.
I’ll also discuss the causes and consequences of father-daughter estrangement and potential pathways for reconciliation.
Narcissistic Mortification: understanding and addressing deep emotional wounds in relationships
Narcissistic mortification is a profound emotional experience characterized by intense feelings of shame, humiliation, and inadequacy.
This concept is especially pertinent in the context of personal relationships, where partners may inadvertently or intentionally trigger these emotions in one another.
As a couples therapist, understanding and addressing narcissistic mortification is crucial for helping individuals and couples navigate the complex dynamics that can arise from these deep-seated emotional wounds.
The long shadow of childhood abuse on marriages: Insights from Israeli Arabs
As a marriage and family therapist, I've seen firsthand how past traumas can cast a long shadow over present relationships.
A recent study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships brings this into sharp focus.
It reveals that Israeli Arabs who experienced higher levels of physical abuse in childhood often face poorer marriage quality as adults.
These folks also tend to report higher levels of psychological distress and are more likely to exhibit insecure attachment styles.
New study shows finding meaning in daily life boosts kids' mental health
Recent research published in The Humanistic Psychologist reveals a powerful link between finding meaning in daily life and improved mental health in children.
While adults often benefit from having a sense of purpose, this study shows that kids can also reap big rewards from feeling their lives have meaning.
Let’s explore why meaning matters for Kids.
Open Marriage: The Tale of Nena and George O'Neill, or how the genie escaped the bottle
Once upon a time, in the groovy era of the early 1970s, a daring duo named Nena and George O'Neill emerged from the realms of psychotherapy to challenge the sanctity of matrimonial monotony.
Their manifesto, "Open Marriage," published in 1972, was a bold proclamation that rattled the teacups in suburban households and set tongues wagging at PTA meetings.