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Suburban Wife Swapping: From secretive thrills to tragic ends

Suburban wife swapping often referred to as "swinging," involves married couples exchanging partners for sexual activities.

While often intended to be consensual and recreational, this practice sometimes leads to unexpected and tragic consequences.

This post explores the dynamics of suburban wife swapping, highlighting instances where such activities have resulted in tragic consequences.

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Are Bisexual Women More Like Men? New study suggests surprising similarities

As a science-based couples therapist, I find it fascinating to explore how different personality traits and behaviors manifest across various sexual orientations.

A recent study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior has revealed that bisexual women exhibit personality traits and sexual behaviors more similar to heterosexual men than to heterosexual women. Let's explore this intriguing research.

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The "Body Count" Conundrum: How your sexual history shapes social perceptions

I sometimes encounter questions about how past relationships impact present ones.

A recent study published in Sexuality & Culture dives deep into how people’s sexual histories affect how others perceive them.

The findings reveal some surprising insights into societal perceptions and the enduring power of the sexual double standard (SDS).

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Why passion and intimacy aren't enough to prevent infidelity

I often grapple with the complexities of romantic relationships and the factors that influence fidelity.

New research published in the journal Deviant Behavior reveals some surprising insights into infidelity.

This study suggests that individual tendencies, rather than shared passion and intimacy, play a crucial role in the decision to remain faithful.

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The Power of Intimacy: Boosting Your sexual well-being

As a science-based couples therapist, I see firsthand how intimacy can transform relationships.

Recent research published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior highlights the significant role intimacy plays in enhancing sexual desire, satisfaction, and reducing sexual distress.

Let's explore these findings and understand how daily experiences of intimacy can positively impact your relationship.

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Is your diet leading to depression? Unveiling the impact of high-fat foods and the power of fruits

Recent research has revealed a troubling connection between high-fat diets and depression.

Fatty acids, when consumed in excess, enter the brain through the bloodstream and accumulate in the hypothalamus, a critical brain region that affects mood regulation.

This buildup interferes with brain signals associated with depression, providing insight into why obesity and depression often coexist.

In a groundbreaking study, mice were fed a diet consisting of 60% saturated and unsaturated fats.

After just three weeks, these mice exhibited signs of depressive behavior.

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Concrete couples counseling questions

Navigating intimate relationships can be as thrilling as it is challenging.

Couples therapy can be a fantastic way to untangle the knots of complex issues, fix communication breakdowns, set relationship goals, and ultimately strengthen your bond.

If you’re new to couples counseling, you might be curious about the questions that will pop up during sessions or the ones you should bring to the table.

Here’s a deep dive into some essential and thought-provoking concrete couples counseling questions to get you started.

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How to end a marriage

Our culture often views divorce as a failure, especially when it involves infidelity.

Longevity is seen as the ultimate indicator of marital success, but many people who stayed "till death do us part" have been miserable.

When a relationship has run its course, I strive to help it end with dignity and integrity. I see no contradiction in asking a couple about the success of their breakup.

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Genius and Aspergers

The relationship between genius and Asperger's Syndrome (AS) is a topic that has intrigued scientists, historians, and the general public alike.

High-functioning Asperger's, a condition on the autism spectrum, is often characterized by intense focus, exceptional memory, and deep passion for specific subjects—traits that can contribute to extraordinary achievements in various fields.

This post considers the nuanced connection between high-functioning Asperger's and genius, highlighting the contributions of folks who may have bridged these two realms.

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