Welcome to my Blog

Thank you for stopping by. This space is where I share research, reflections, and practical tools drawn from my experience as a marriage and family therapist.

Are you a couple looking for clarity? A professional curious about the science of relationships? Or simply someone interested in how love and resilience work? I’m glad you’ve found your way here. I can help with that.

Each post is written with one goal in mind: to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the hidden dynamics that shape human connection.

Grab a coffee (or a notebook), explore what speaks to you, and take what’s useful back into your life and relationships. And if a post sparks a question, or makes you realize you could use more support, I’d love to hear from you.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.
~Daniel

P.S.

Feel free to explore the categories below to find past blog posts on the topics that matter most to you. If you’re curious about attachment, navigating conflict, or strengthening intimacy, these archives are a great way to dive deeper into the research and insights that I’ve been sharing for years.

 

Family Life and Parenting Daniel Dashnaw Family Life and Parenting Daniel Dashnaw

The Emergence of Infant Consciousness: Insights from Neuroscience…

Neuroscience continues the exploration of infant consciousness… and that exploration continues to lead us to ethically challenging territories.

Until the 1980s, medical practices routinely subjected newborns to surgeries without anesthesia, under the assumption of their lack of awareness.

Recent research challenges the prior, prevailing notion that consciousness only arises after birth or within the first year of life.

A meta-review of studies suggests that some form of consciousness may emerge even before birth, particularly towards the end of the third trimester…

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Couples Therapy Daniel Dashnaw Couples Therapy Daniel Dashnaw

When does couples therapy fail?

I admire courageous couples who might feel helpless or hopeless but deeply long to find a way to repair and reconnect once more.

If you’ve been in emotional gridlock and you want help, I might be the help you need…

But when will even a good couples therapist throw up their hands?

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Marriage and Mental Health Daniel Dashnaw Marriage and Mental Health Daniel Dashnaw

Sleepless in Recovery: The Surprising Post-COVID-19 Insomnia Trend…

The aftermath of COVID-19 is proving to be a real snooze fest for many, but not in the way you might think.

While we're all eager to put the pandemic behind us, some are having trouble catching those much-needed Zs.

According to a recent study, over 76% of folks recovering from mild COVID-19 are experiencing a noticeable degree of insomnia…

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Marriage and Mental Health Daniel Dashnaw Marriage and Mental Health Daniel Dashnaw

Moral Injury: Understanding, Healing, and Moving Forward with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy…

In recent years, the concept of moral injury has gained increasing attention in the field of marriage and family therapy.

Coined originally in the context of combat veterans, moral injury refers to the psychological, social, and spiritual harm that arises from actions, or the lack thereof, that transgress deeply held moral beliefs and expectations.

It can occur in various contexts beyond the military, such as in healthcare, law enforcement, and even within personal relationships...

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Extramarital Affairs Daniel Dashnaw Extramarital Affairs Daniel Dashnaw

Undertaking the twin tasks of affair recovery

Little compares to the devastation people feel upon discovering that their spouses have been unfaithful. Some marriages end right away.

But many others hit agonizing impasses as couples struggle to get past the intense anger, sadness, and mistrust. [Over 60% of marriages survive an affair].

These hurtful interactions wreak emotional havoc on both spouses, and typically neither one has a clue how to help the marriage recover…

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Signs of Trouble Daniel Dashnaw Signs of Trouble Daniel Dashnaw

The problem with being defensive…

Defensiveness is marriage one of the most pervasive of Gottman’s four horsemen of the apocalypse.

The problem with being defensive is that when you’re feeling attacked, it keeps you stuck in your own head.

Many couples slide into conflictual conversations too casually, easily and quickly… do you?

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