In my last post, I described how social science research nailed “mind reading” as a particularly toxic habit in intimate relationships.

But Industrial psychologists love mind reading research. I guess they fantasize about a highly efficient hive-mind… but I digress…

If you must mind read… here is what you should know…

Recent research tells us that happy couples have synchronized brains… Do these brains groove easily because they’re a “good match?”

Or is this synchronization hard won, occurring gradually over time?

Processing emotions effectively is the essential challenge in neurodiverse relationships.

How does the use of metaphor and differences in emotional processing gum up the works for these couples?

What if powerful differences in how you and your partner think might be the actual source of your unhappiness?

What if your husband isn’t an asshole after all?

Here are 66 traits that suggest that your partner might be neuro-diverse. ..

When asshole behavior arises in an intimate relationship… we need a explanatory narrative. And that’s when some neurodiverse couples often self-identify…

Therapist are talking more about Pathological Demand Avoidance. Is it a neurodiverse trait? Or a sign of a severe personality disorder?