As a couples therapist, I’ve seen my fair share of relationship drama, but there’s something uniquely perplexing about the folks who exhibit traits like narcissism, psychopathy, Machiavellianism, and sadism.

What’s even more fascinating (and troubling) is that many of these folks genuinely believe they’re morally superior to others—even when their actions scream otherwise.

Let’s unpack this paradox by exploring the latest research in psychology and neuroscience, diving deep into the mind of the Dark Tetrad, and asking some tough questions about what makes these personalities tick.

Ever wondered why some women stray from their relationships? Spoiler alert: it’s not all about bad boys and revenge.

A recent study published in Evolution and Human Behavior offers some intriguing insights into the complex motivations behind female infidelity.

And as a couples therapist, I can’t resist diving into this fascinating mix of evolutionary psychology and relationship drama.

In the digital age, memes have become a powerful way to express cultural values and trends. One such meme that has captured the attention of many is "Catch Flights, Not Feelings."

This phrase has evolved from a catchy slogan into a cultural mantra, especially among younger generations who prioritize personal freedom, travel, and experiences over traditional romantic commitments.

But what does this meme really say about modern relationships, and what does social science have to say about it?

As a science-based couples therapist with a background in labor studies, I’ve seen how deeply our work lives intersect with our personal lives.

This intersection is particularly evident in the "Work Husband/Work Wife" meme—a concept that highlights the unique and often intimate relationships that form between colleagues.

While these relationships can provide essential support and camaraderie, they also raise important questions about boundaries, emotional fidelity, and the increasingly blurred lines between work and home life.

As a couples therapist, I’ve observed how the digital age has dramatically altered the dynamics of romantic relationships.

Among the most concerning trends is the rise of the "Sneaky Link" meme—a term that has gained widespread popularity on social media, representing secretive romantic or sexual encounters hidden from one’s primary partner.

This meme not only underscores the ease with which infidelity can now be conducted but also reveals a troubling connection to technologically assisted narcissism.

In this post, I’ll probably embarrass myself by attempting to discuss therapeutic change from a lofty perch.

Here it goes.

True therapeutic transformation occurs when shadow work, praxis, and contemplation are integrated into a cohesive process.

Shadow work uncovers the hidden aspects of the self, "know thyself" invites us to embrace these aspects with compassion, and praxis turns this understanding into action.

Contemplation ensures that these actions are informed by deep reflection, creating a balanced and sustainable approach to growth.

The "tiger parent" meme has clawed its way into popular culture, blending both humor and social commentary.

But where did this fierce parenting archetype originate, and how did it evolve into a meme that's both celebrated and critiqued across the internet?

Let’s examine the history of the tiger parent meme, its cultural roots, and how it became a digital phenomenon.

Meet Anna and James: A Political Divide in the Making

Anna and James have been married for 15 years.

Like many couples, they’ve weathered the storms of life together—raising two children, managing careers, and making compromises on everything from where to vacation to how to decorate the living room.

But recently, their once-strong bond has been tested by a force they never anticipated: political polarization.

In the ever-evolving landscape of parenting, we've seen it all—from helicopter parents hovering anxiously over their children to free-range parents letting their kids roam with minimal oversight.

But there’s a new breed in town: the snowplow parent. These parents don’t just hover—they actively push aside every obstacle in their child's path, much like a determined snowplow clearing a road after a heavy storm.

While this might seem like the ultimate act of parental love, it’s also a prime example of what some experts are calling "cultural narcissism." Let’s dig into how we got here and what it all mean

The term "helicopter parent" has become a widely recognized meme, encapsulating a particular style of parenting characterized by over-involvement and overprotective.

This meme, which started as a bit of pop culture shorthand, has grown into a cultural touchstone, often invoked in discussions about modern parenting and family dynamics in the United States.

But where did this meme come from, and how does it compare to other parental memes throughout history?

In the fast-paced world of modern parenting, the image of the over-scheduled family is as common as the minivan parked in the driveway.

Soccer practice, violin lessons, tutoring sessions, and weekend games—these are just a few of the activities that fill up a family’s calendar.

The overscheduled family highlights the ambitions and anxieties of today’s parents as they strive to give their children the best possible start in life.

But are we doing our kids a favor, or are we setting them up for stress and burnout?

As the upcoming election gets closer, you might notice a new dynamic emerging in your family gatherings—Generational Political Gaps.

It’s a situation many of us can relate to: younger and older family members clashing over political beliefs, turning what should be a warm, connecting time into something more tense and uncomfortable.

This divide can be particularly tricky when you throw in the mix of neurodiverse family members, whose perspectives and experiences might differ even more.