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The Hidden impact of relationship quality on depression
Approximately 16% of people in the United States experience depression at some point in their lives.
New research reveals a startling connection: folks with the lowest quality relationships are at double the risk of developing depression.
Two critical relationship patterns contribute to this increased risk:
Having an unsupportive partner and having a partner under social strain.
Social strain often involves the pressures of working hard to achieve a certain lifestyle, such as owning a house, driving a nice car, or taking vacations.
From Childhood to Conspiracy: How early adversity shapes belief systems
One fascinating area of study is why some folks are more inclined to believe in conspiracy theories than others.
A recent study published in Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences suggests that childhood adversity plays a significant role. Let's dive into these intriguing findings.
The "Body Count" Conundrum: How your sexual history shapes social perceptions
I sometimes encounter questions about how past relationships impact present ones.
A recent study published in Sexuality & Culture dives deep into how people’s sexual histories affect how others perceive them.
The findings reveal some surprising insights into societal perceptions and the enduring power of the sexual double standard (SDS).
Is your diet leading to depression? Unveiling the impact of high-fat foods and the power of fruits
Recent research has revealed a troubling connection between high-fat diets and depression.
Fatty acids, when consumed in excess, enter the brain through the bloodstream and accumulate in the hypothalamus, a critical brain region that affects mood regulation.
This buildup interferes with brain signals associated with depression, providing insight into why obesity and depression often coexist.
In a groundbreaking study, mice were fed a diet consisting of 60% saturated and unsaturated fats.
After just three weeks, these mice exhibited signs of depressive behavior.
What is Dopamine Fasting? Adventures in modern monasticism
Greetings, gentle reader! Today, we're diving into the curious world of "dopamine fasting," a trend that might sound like it belongs in a sci-fi novel or a self-help seminar, but is, in fact, a real practice gaining traction in our hyper-connected, dopamine-drenched society.
Dopamine fasting is a practice in which folks intentionally avoid activities that trigger the release of dopamine, the brain's "feel-good" neurotransmitter.
The goal? To reset the brain's reward system, reduce dependence on instant gratification, and, ultimately, regain control over one's life and happiness.
Think of it as a mental detox or a digital sabbatical. But are we misunderstanding the science?
Spiritual Infidelity: Beyond flesh and heart
Infidelity is a complex and multifaceted issue that can devastate relationships. While physical and emotional infidelity are well-known, there's a deeper, often overlooked form of betrayal: spiritual infidelity.
As a science-based couples therapist with a spiritual bent, I've observed how this subtle, yet profound, breach can impact relationships in unique and challenging ways.
Uncovering 6 distinct types of depression for personalized treatment
Depression and anxiety disorders are pervasive mental health challenges, but their treatment often falls short due to the diversity in symptoms and brain dysfunctions among patients.
Researchers at Stanford University have made a significant breakthrough by identifying six unique "biotypes" of depression and anxiety, using advanced brain imaging and computational techniques.
What Are PDAs in Relationships?
Public displays of affection, commonly referred to as PDAs, are physical acts of intimacy shown between partners in public.
These acts can range from holding hands to kissing and hugging.
PDAs are often viewed as a way for couples to express their affection and connection to each other, even when they are in the presence of others.
The mind after midnight hypothesis: What really happens to your brain when you stay up late
When the clock strikes midnight and you're still awake, you're entering a realm where your brain might not be at its best.
This phenomenon, known as the "Mind After Midnight Hypothesis," suggests that our brains become more prone to negative thoughts, risky behavior, and emotional instability during late-night hours.
This post explores what happens to your brain after midnight and why you might want to consider getting some sleep instead of binge-watching your favorite series or scrolling through social media.
The narcissist's guide to perspective-taking activities: it's not all about you
Perspective-taking is a crucial skill in any relationship, allowing us to understand and empathize with others.
However, for narcissists, this concept can be as elusive as a unicorn at a business meeting.
In this post, we'll discuss narcissism and perspective-taking, exploring why it's so challenging for narcissists and offering insights for those who love, live, or work with them.
Narcissism and Mentalization
Narcissism and mentalization are two concepts that intertwine intricately, impacting not just individual mental health but also the dynamics of intimate relationships.
I've seen how these psychological constructs influence behavior, emotional connections, and overall relationship satisfaction.
How complex trauma leads to narcissism
Narcissism is often misunderstood as mere self-absorption or vanity, but its roots often lie much deeper.
I frequently encounter the repercussions of narcissistic behavior in relationships, which can often be traced back to complex trauma.
In this post, we will explore the connection between complex trauma and narcissism, drawing on research and insights from thought leaders in the field.