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Can one word illumine a marriage?
Research keeps reminding us over and over…
An attitude of gratitude with brighten your bond…
The upside of being a slob…
I love it when a piece of research explains away a fact of life, leaving in it’s wake, a calm self-acceptance.
For some smartypants humans, this research will elicit a sigh of relief…
The power of abstract thinking…
I can’t help myself! It’s endlessly fascinating to me when research helps us tweak and goose our minds to work a little better for us.
I love brain hack studies!
This one is particularly cool…
Huge mega-study reveals the 5 best ways to improve your relationship…
Brian Ogolsky is one of our best researchers.
About a decade ago, he did a huge mega study that described a good marriage as similar to a fine automobile…
It requires preventative maintenance…
The power of appreciation…
I’m so excited when I see top flight research teams developing credible, effective interventions to boost our capacity for gratitude and appreciation!
Which personality trait has the tightest correlation with a high IQ?
Which personalty trait is most correlated with high intelligence, and what 2 aspects of that trait are the most compelling?
Can your IQ predict a happy marriage?
Research tells us that a high IQ on any sort of intelligence scale is favorably disposed toward a long, potentially happy union.
But why does high Verbal Intelligence, in particular, hold such allure?
17 skills of effective decision-making
During a rough time a few years back, I was so appalled at how bad my decision making was.
So I decided to make a serious study of the elements of a making good decision…
The Hobby / Happiness connection…
Did you know that hobbies may contribute to profound life satisfaction in our later years?
Believe it or not, hobbies promote a sense of agency over our minds and bodies, and they confirm a sense of life-purpose, in general.
Research suggests that having a hobby may reduce your risk of depression by 33%.
Why are hobbies so impactful?
Is there a “best way” to handle money in a committed relationship?…. Yes, despite what you may have read elsewhere...
Blended or separate? Is there a best way to manage our family’s money to optimize marital satisfaction? …Yes.
2 Wicked powerful questions to lift your relationship satisfaction…
Here are 2 wicked powerful questions that will build your relationship satisfaction if you use them with skill…
Is there a perfect age to wed?…apparently, there is….
Is there an age range for your first marriage that is correlated with the highest possible success rate?
Yup.