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Why you will marry the wrong person
Marriage: a journey of love, commitment, and occasionally wondering why you agreed to share your life with someone who doesn't understand your obsession with obscure board games or think that leaving dirty socks around is a serious crime.
The truth is, many of us will marry the wrong person. Here's why:
Neurofeedback: A guide to equipment and benefits
Neurofeedback, a type of biofeedback, is a therapeutic intervention that trains folks to alter their brain activity.
By monitoring brain waves, neurofeedback helps in optimizing brain function, which can lead to improvements in various mental health conditions, cognitive performance, and overall well-being.
Healing from Invalidation Trauma: Rebuilding Trust and Connection
Invalidation is a sneaky troublemaker in neurodiverse relationships, gradually gnawing away at the bonds of connection and trust.
This silent assassin harms not just our emotional well-being but also our brain and nervous system over time.
Healing from this relational trauma requires steady efforts in character growth, self-awareness, and love.
Neutrality might seem harmless, but it's actually a form of deep invalidation.
When someone invalidates us, it triggers our brain's survival mechanisms, making us feel undervalued and unprotected.
This pressure cooker situation can lead our minds to either implode or explode—sometimes a bit of both.
Invalidation, whether in personal relationships or on a larger societal scale, erodes the walls of trust and commitment, crucial for sustaining any relationship.
Just like a leaky faucet can damage a house's foundation over time, invalidation weakens the core of our connections.
Silent Thinkers: Embracing neurodiversity in a noisy world
In our increasingly fast-paced and loud world, growing awareness of neurodiversity has revealed the unique strengths and challenges faced by those who think differently.
Among these diverse cognitive profiles are the "silent thinkers," who process information internally without the typical verbal inner dialogue.
This article explores the concept of silent thinkers, highlighting their contributions and the importance of recognizing and embracing neurodiversity.
Internal Monologue Test: Discover your inner voice
Ever wondered if you have an inner voice that guides your thoughts and decisions? The concept of the internal monologue is fascinating, and it's something that varies greatly from person to person.
Some folks have a constant stream of verbal thoughts, while others think in images, concepts, or even without any inner dialogue at all.
Take this fun and informative test to find out more about your own internal monologue!
7 Traits that might indicate Autism
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) encompasses a wide range of behaviors and traits that are unique to each individual.
Recognizing these traits can help foster better understanding and support.
Here are seven key traits that might suggest someone is on the autism spectrum, along with strategies to support and accommodate these characteristics.
Genius and Aspergers
The relationship between genius and Asperger's Syndrome (AS) is a topic that has intrigued scientists, historians, and the general public alike.
High-functioning Asperger's, a condition on the autism spectrum, is often characterized by intense focus, exceptional memory, and deep passion for specific subjects—traits that can contribute to extraordinary achievements in various fields.
This post considers the nuanced connection between high-functioning Asperger's and genius, highlighting the contributions of folks who may have bridged these two realms.
Twice Exceptional Schools vs. Schools for Gifted Students
When exploring educational options for advanced learners, parents and educators often encounter the terms "twice exceptional schools" and "schools for gifted students."
While both cater to high-potential students, they serve distinct populations and employ different educational strategies.
This post explores the differences between these two types of schools and provides a list of iconic institutions in the USA that excel in catering to gifted and twice-exceptional (2e) students.
Raising GT Kids: Nurturing gifted and talented children
Parenting is already a heroic journey, but parenting GT kids? That’s an epic quest worthy of its own mythology.
As a spiritually-oriented marriage and family therapist, I’d like to take a more nuanced stance toward nurturing your gifted and talented (GT) children.
ADHD Couples Therapy: in-depth tasks and strategies
Couples therapy is inherently complex, but when one partner has ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), the challenges intensify.
It's vital for therapists to comprehend the unique difficulties and strengths ADHD introduces into a relationship.
This post describes essential tasks and strategies for fostering a robust and satisfying relationship when one partner has ADHD, drawing from the latest research in the field.
Rapid prenatal brain growth linked to Autism Spectrum Disorder
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) encompasses a wide range of symptoms and challenges that affect children differently.
While some children exhibit mild symptoms that improve over time, others face severe, lifelong difficulties, such as nonverbal communication.
Scientists have long been puzzled by this variability.
However, a groundbreaking study from the University of California-San Diego suggests that the biological roots of these different autism subtypes — mild and severe — begin in the womb.
What is auADHD?
auDHD is an abbreviation combining "autism" and "ADHD" (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), referring to folks who have both of these neurodevelopmental conditions simultaneously.
While autism and ADHD are often seen as separate diagnoses, recent research indicates a significant overlap between the two in terms of symptoms and genetic factors.