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Confirmed: Exercise Improves Sleep…
Science has finally confirmed what many suspected to be true about sleep: exercise indeed improves sleep quality, as a recent study affirms.
While some may not subjectively feel the effects, this naturalistic study demonstrates a clear link between exercise and improved sleep metrics, particularly in the realm of non-rapid eye movement (NREM) sleep.
Personality change after bariatric surgery and bariatric divorce…
Personality change after bariatric surgery is a fact, and a bariatric divorce is often the result.
After bariatric surgery, hormone levels dramatically shift, and the post-surgery dietary regime changes serotonin levels and neurotransmitter activity in the brain.
Personality change after bariatric surgery can wreak havoc in marriage and leave spouses completely unprepared…
Toxic Careers, Declining Industries, and Marital Strain: Understanding the Link…
Understanding the science behind our recent history of COVID Stress, and the divorce rate of occupations requires some sort of a pre-COVID baseline.
Fortunately, several studies in 2015 researched the divorce rates of various occupations… What changed?
How long does sadness last? The science of bad outcomes…
How long do we feel sad after a serious personal setback? And what sorts of setbacks are particularly impactful?
In these extraordinary times, I took a detour into new research from the field of Labor Economics to examine this question… how long does sadness last after a significant setback?
Old brain vs. young brain… prepare to be surprised…
As people age, their brains inevitably undergo changes that can impact cognitive function.
However, recent research shows that older adults often develop strategies to use their brains more efficiently than younger folks...
What is Resilience?
We all need a certain baseline resilience just to deal with the setbacks and losses that are an inevitable part of ordinary life.
Resilience is the ability to manage uncertainty, resist and overcome fear while transcending obstacles that may appear to be preventing you from succeeding.
Fortunately, we know a lot about resilience; what it is, and how it works.
Why researchers are studying depression and relationships…
Depression stands out head and shoulders over all other mental health problems.
When someone reaches out to a therapist for help, odds are in most cases they are either looking for help with their marriage, or help with their depression (Heene, Buysse, & Van Oost, 2005). Here’s what you need to know…
Why self-compassion is essential for emotional resilience…
New research underscores the profound impact of self-compassion on emotional healing and well-being.
According to Professor Mark R. Leary, the lead author of a study on this subject, self-compassion helps humans cope with life's challenges without becoming defensive.
He stated, “Self-compassion helps to eliminate a lot of the anger, depression and pain we experience when things go badly for us.”
Sleepless in Recovery: The Surprising Post-COVID-19 Insomnia Trend…
The aftermath of COVID-19 is proving to be a real snooze fest for many, but not in the way you might think.
While we're all eager to put the pandemic behind us, some are having trouble catching those much-needed Zs.
According to a recent study, over 76% of folks recovering from mild COVID-19 are experiencing a noticeable degree of insomnia…
Moral Injury: Understanding, Healing, and Moving Forward with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy…
In recent years, the concept of moral injury has gained increasing attention in the field of marriage and family therapy.
Coined originally in the context of combat veterans, moral injury refers to the psychological, social, and spiritual harm that arises from actions, or the lack thereof, that transgress deeply held moral beliefs and expectations.
It can occur in various contexts beyond the military, such as in healthcare, law enforcement, and even within personal relationships...
Retired Husband Syndrome
Retired husband syndrome (主人在宅ストレス症候群 Shujin Zaitaku Sutoresu Shoukougun) is a significant stressor in contemporary Japanese marriages.
It makes me wonder how American men grapple with notions of honor and responsibility.
The controlling partner…4 losing strategies in marriage
Some controlling partner often struggle in couples therapy…if they deign to attend at all.
On the other hand, some controlling partners are eager to change their controlling behaviors and work hard to do so. How can we tell the difference?