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Confirmed: Exercise Improves Sleep…
Science has finally confirmed what many suspected to be true about sleep: exercise indeed improves sleep quality, as a recent study affirms.
While some may not subjectively feel the effects, this naturalistic study demonstrates a clear link between exercise and improved sleep metrics, particularly in the realm of non-rapid eye movement (NREM) sleep.
The Romantic Revolution: Unveiling the Depths of Online Dating
The University of Chicago's magnum opus, published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science halls, unveils a truth that defies conventional wisdom.
Couples who meet online are happier and less likely to part ways—a testament to the transformative power of pixels and algorithms.
Why does online dating lead to better marriages?
Personality change after bariatric surgery and bariatric divorce…
Personality change after bariatric surgery is a fact, and a bariatric divorce is often the result.
After bariatric surgery, hormone levels dramatically shift, and the post-surgery dietary regime changes serotonin levels and neurotransmitter activity in the brain.
Personality change after bariatric surgery can wreak havoc in marriage and leave spouses completely unprepared…
Why do we fight in relationships?
Why is conflict (which is inescapable in our most intimate friendships) so inherently fraught with peril?
Why do so many marital fights go so wrong… so fast?
Here’s what we know…
Navigating Emotional Bank Accounts: The Science Behind Thriving Relationships…
An emotional bank account is an internal measure of interpersonal trust. The balance sheet shows how often bids for attention are met by each life partner.
When you turn toward your spouse, you’re making a deposit, and when you turn away or turn against your partner, you’re making a withdrawal.
A surplus of goodwill will buffer the relationship when the inevitable withdrawals happen…
What is the Cassandra Syndrome?
Cassandra Syndrome has emerged as the term used to describe the psychological and emotional distress experienced by a neurotypical woman married to a neurodiverse man.
Neurotypical spouses are often plagued by ambivalence, confusion, and turmoil.
There are few social supports to help NT spouses grapple with their experience of existential loneliness…
The problem with “common sense” in relationships…
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There is a considerable problem in modern couples therapy.
Despite the fact that science-based couples therapy has never been more effective, our media is infested with shameless love gurus who have no academic or clinical training whatsoever.
Beware of any advice that offers “common sense” in relationships. Here’s 7 reasons why…
Will couples therapy work for you?
Science-based couples therapy stresses the need to develop skills for managing conflict and accepting perpetual problems that can be managed, but not solved.
Both of these cognitive-behavioral methods show wide success with most couples.
What’s the difference between couples therapy and marriage counseling? Here Are 4 questions to ask instead…
Many people want to know, “What’s the difference between couples therapy and marriage counseling?”
And because inquiring minds want to know, several therapy websites have presented misleading information, pretending to answer this question with clarity.
Shame on them….
Marriage counseling questions you both need to ponder beforehand
If you’re considering starting couples therapy, you might benefit from having a frank and open conversation with your partner about the scope of your relationship problems.
An important primary question is are you ready to start couples counseling?
10 serious signs that your marriage is dying…
When a marriage is dying, we spend more time with the partner in our head. Then the problem-saturated narrative takes over.
Your real partner is trying to be heard, as are you, but neither of you feels understood.
When a marriage is dying, both parties ache to be heard.
The Polyamory Meme
Rhonda Balzarini and her researchers discovered (as they had expected), that the polyamorous relationship cohort reported experiencing more “nurturance” from their primary than from their secondary partners.
They also told her researchers that their secondary relationships were more “erotic.”
What is the relationship between getting nurtured and getting nookie?