Here’s a question I was asked recently. “Is estrangement a form of abuse?"

This question delves into a complex and nuanced topic within psychology and family dynamics.

While the answer may vary depending on individual circumstances, research and expert opinions shed light on the multifaceted nature of estrangement and its potential impact on familial relationship

Losing a parent, or anticipating losing one, is a significant life event that can evoke a wide array of emotions, memories, and practical considerations.

When that parent is estranged, the grieving process becomes a complex wave of emotions, often with some logistical challenges thrown in…

The evolution of American family dynamics reflects a profound shift in societal values, contributing to the emergence of familial estrangement as a prevalent issue.

Let’s briefly discuss some of the social science research and insights from thought leaders in the field.

Which gender is more loyal in a relationship?

I appreciate your curiosity, but it’s sort of the wrong question.

Research into gender differences in loyalty unveils a complex interplay of societal expectations, individual characteristics, and relational dynamics.

Let’s jump in…

Infidelity inflicts deep wounds on a relationship, wounds that often take years to heal, if ever fully.

As the initial shock of betrayal subsides, resentment can take root, poisoning the well of intimacy and trust. But what happens as time goes by?

Let’s look at the research on resentment one year after infidelity, exploring its persistence, manifestations, and implications for long-term relationship dynamics.

Because of my work in neurodiverse family therapy, a client recently asked me about career options for their kids.

I offer this to WT and his kids, with affection.

"Malevolent infidelity" refers to a particularly harmful form of betrayal within romantic relationships, characterized by deliberate deceit and malicious intent on the part of the unfaithful partner.

This type of infidelity often involves calculated actions aimed at causing emotional harm to the betrayed partner, such as engaging in affairs with full knowledge of the consequences or manipulating the partner's trust for personal gain.

So the question is…What are you looking for in a relationship?

In a relationship, what you look for can vary widely depending on individual needs, values, and life circumstances.

However, from a vantage point informed by the latest research in couples therapy, there are several vital elements that humans often desire and benefit from in their relationships.

You might want to compare your thoughts and beliefs to these…

Expectations in relationships often serve as silent architects shaping the unspoken dynamics between romantic partners.

How we perceive, communicate, and negotiate these expectations can profoundly impact the health and longevity of our relationships.

Couples therapy with dashed expectations can be challenging… I've witnessed firsthand the pivotal role expectations play in fostering intimacy or breeding discontent.

Do you feel your relationship is more of a battleground than a love nest?

Does the tension between you and your partner rival that of a Shakespearean tragedy?

Strap in… because we're diving deep into the turbulent waters of tumultuous relationships.

When those among us with Anxious Attachment sense emotional distance or feel insecure within their relationship, they may exhibit what is known as protest behavior… and that can be a real problem…

Contrary to societal expectations of blissful expansion, some parents grapple with feelings of overwhelm, stress, and a perceived decline in their overall quality of life.

I’ll explore the nuanced challenges of having a second child as illuminated by contemporary social science research…