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10 Little Romantic Things Women Want (Without Having to Ask)
Imagine this: you're snuggled up on the couch, watching a rom-com where the guy shows up with flowers, a surprise date, and—of course—a rain-soaked kiss that would make Noah's Ark jealous.
Meanwhile, your partner is happily munching on snacks, completely oblivious to the fact that you, too, would love a grand romantic gesture (or even just a text back).
The truth is, most women don’t want to ask for romance—they want it to come naturally.
So, before you start Googling "how to be romantic," take a breath. I've got you covered with 10 simple ways to show your love without needing a special occasion or a Pinterest board. Let's get into it!
Alain de Botton and the School of Life
The School of Life, co-founded by philosopher Alain de Botton in 2008, offers a somewhat derivative, but sincere perspective on relationships, blending psychological insights with philosophical thought.
The institution is dedicated to providing tools and guidance to help folks navigate the complexities of emotional well-being, relationships, and self-knowledge.
Building Wealth Together: How Simple Living and Mindful Choices Lead to Financial Freedom in Relationships
In a world where consumerism often dictates our understanding of success, the pursuit of financial independence can seem like a distant dream.
However, true financial freedom is not just for the exceptionally wealthy or those with extraordinary incomes.
Drawing on the groundbreaking research of Dr. Thomas Stanley, author of The Millionaire Next Door, and insights from couples therapy, this blog post explores how couples can build lasting financial security while strengthening their relationships.
Unlocking the Mystery: What Does It Mean to Be Lucky in Love?
Have you ever wondered what it truly means to be "lucky in love"?
It’s a phrase we hear often, but what does it actually entail? Is it just a whimsical notion, or is there a science behind it?
As it turns out, the concept of being lucky in love is more than just a romantic ideal—it’s a topic that researchers have explored in depth.
Is there a science to being lucky in love?
Unlock the Secret to What Makes You Attractive: Playfulness
Ever wonder what makes you attractive? Researchers wonder too. Dr. René Proyer from the Institute of Psychology at MLU claims that his recent research has uncovered the secret of being attractive.
And it’s Playfulness.
Playfulness is what makes you attractive. According to Dr. Proyer, it’s is one of the most charming ways of engaging with others.
Relationship Status: “Joint Costco Membership” — A Deep Dive into Emo-Markers of Commitment
As a marriage and family therapist, I spend a lot of time helping couples recognize the often-overlooked signals of commitment that define their relationship.
While we all know the traditional milestones—like moving in together, marriage, or having kids—there's something profound about the more subtle indicators that show two people are genuinely committed to each other.
One of the most underappreciated of these? The joint Costco membership.
Flamping: A Family Adventure in the Pursuit of Awe
Imagine landing your small plane on a remote airstrip, far from the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
As the engine cools and the sun begins to set, you and your family pitch tents beside the aircraft, surrounded by nothing but nature's grandeur.
This is "flamping"—a blend of flying and camping that offers not just an adventure, but a deeply enriching family experience.
But flamping is more than just a getaway.
It’s a journey into the heart of awe, a powerful emotion that can transform how we see ourselves and each other.
Sleep: The Ultimate Cheat Code for Skill Mastery (and Maybe Even Your Golf Swing)
When it comes to mastering new skills, most of us are familiar with the age-old advice: “Practice makes perfect.”
But what if I told you that practice is only part of the equation?
And that the other part—perhaps the most critical one—has been right under your pillow all along?
That’s right, folks, I’m talking about sleep, that magical brain hack that not only keeps us from turning into sleep-deprived zombies but also supercharges our motor skills.
The Self-Control Paradox: Why Wanting More Self-Control Is Like Wishing for a Million Dollars Right After You’ve Gone Broke
Ah, the irony. The tricky thing about the desire for self-control is that it tends to arrive at the worst possible moment, like a surprise bill after a splurge or the sudden realization that you might need a gym membership while struggling to lift your grocery bags.
Research shows that our thirst for self-control peaks precisely when our reserves are at rock bottom. So, just when you need to channel your inner zen master, your self-control is off somewhere taking a nap.
The Evolution of the Meme: "Happy Wife, Happy Life" and Its Migration to the Internet
"Happy Wife, Happy Life"—it's the phrase that’s been whispered by wise old uncles at weddings and cheekily inscribed on countless mugs and T-shirts.
But where did this nugget of marital wisdom come from, and why has it stuck around for so long?
Spoiler alert: It’s more than just a catchy rhyme; it’s a reflection of how we've thought about marriage for generations.
The Hidden Power of Purpose
Imagine if your sense of purpose could be your brain’s secret weapon against aging.
It turns out, it might be.
Recent research suggests that your internal drive could be a more reliable indicator of cognitive health than all those high-tech brain scans and memory quizzes.
Move over, MRI machines—there’s a new player in town.
Building Resilience Through Reflective Writing: A Simple Exercise with Lasting Impact
Feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges?
A quick and straightforward writing exercise could be just what you need to boost your psychological resilience.
Recent research has shown that spending just 15 minutes a week reflecting on how you've successfully coped with difficult situations can significantly enhance your ability to handle future stress.
A study conducted by Dr. Monique Crane and her colleagues highlights the effectiveness of this approach.