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How just 1 bad night of poor sleep can impact your relationship…
Sleep deprivation is being identified as a persistent source of relational stress. This research suggests that relational stressors emerge after only a single night of disturbed sleep.
Here’s what you need to know…
The one thing you must know about supporting and validating your spouse…
New research from 2020 confirms what we already knew. When we validate our partner’s experience, we soothe their nervous system...
Ideal self vs. Real self?… who do you trust?
Who should trust more… your real self?
Or your idealized self?
The answer may surprise you…
The truth about home buying happiness…
Humans tend to distort how happy they will be when they buy a new home.
What is the relationship between internal and external motivation that tells us when we have “enough”?
Can hugs protect you from the flu?
The lengths to which some researchers will go…
… and the things folks will do for $1000,… and for science, of course!
An economic link between marriage and depression…
There is an economic link between marriage and depression… the researchers believe it’s related to the “pooling of resources”.. but I think otherwise…
What objects in your home say about your relationship…
Did you know that objects in your home, and how you interact with them, can be an intimate window into your relationship?
Very brief reminders of being loved and cared for can soothe an overly-anxious brain…
There is a key idea to remind your partner off when they are getting anxious and stressed in conversation with you…
The idea is… that despite present difficulties, they are loved and cared for…
In fact, the research suggests that the more anxious they are… the better this works…
Community gardening and mental health…the science is in!
Who would have guessed? An important breaking study reveals that community gardening might be the most elegant mental health intervention of all time…. Why?
This one trait in your partner could increase your odds of reaching the age of 85 by 70%
We humans in intimate bonds exert a profound effect upon one another.
But is it true that if my partner exudes optimism… I’m 70% more likely to live longer?
Yup.
New research from Finland: Hug more and synchronize your brains…
Neuroscience enhances are understanding of human proxemics and intimacy.
New technology explains how humans synchronize their brains… with hugs.
A quick hack to predict whether the two of you will marry…
How accurately you remember this has been highly correlated with marriage by a respected relationship researcher… what is it?