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Hopeful spouse…couples therapy for one

Unlike the sh*t show of “value-neutral” and “growth-focused” individual therapy, new studies now show that spouses who receive critical relationship-skills training in Hopeful Spouse Coaching will see just as much improvement in their relationships as if they both were in couples therapy.

Yeah.. there is such a thing as “couples therapy for one.”

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How to Stay Stuck in Couples Therapy: A Guide for the Hopelessly Unyielding

You want to run the clock in couples therapy but you don’t know how?

Let’s face it. Couples Therapy is just a giant irritation.

Your partner, the therapist, flat-out expects way too much from you and refuses to accept the fact that you are already doing the best you can.

You can never make them happy anyway …so what’s the use?

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What is the Miracle Question?

The Miracle Question is a deceptively simple yet powerful technique used in SFT.

It typically goes something like this:

"Suppose tonight, while you are asleep, a miracle happens. When you wake up tomorrow, what will be the first small sign that will make you think the miracle has occurred? What else will you notice?"

This question encourages clients to imagine a future where their problems have been miraculously solved and to identify the small steps they would take toward that goal.

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