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The Invisible Burden: Uncovering Family Anxiety Through a Powerful Meme
Memes are more than just amusing internet phenomena; they are cultural artifacts that capture shared human experiences in powerful, relatable ways.
One meme that is emerging but still remains largely under the radar is “the invisible burden.”
This meme poignantly encapsulates the unspoken emotional and mental load carried by many family members, particularly primary caregivers.
This burden is often a significant source of family anxiety, and understanding its roots and implications is crucial for addressing the mental health challenges it creates.
In this post, we will explore how the invisible burden has become such a pervasive issue, discuss its historical and social origins, and consider how we might begin to alleviate this silent weight.
Is Boredom Dangerous? How Our Modern Lives Fuel a Hidden Psychological Crisis
As a family therapist, I observe the impact of this boredom-driven behavior in relationships and communities.
The rise of boredom in the digital age has far-reaching consequences, from interpersonal conflicts to broader societal issues, such as the appeal of populism and radical ideologies.
Understanding the role of boredom is crucial in addressing these challenges and helping individuals find more fulfilling and meaningful ways to engage with the world around them.
Cuffing Season: Why We All Suddenly Want to Snuggle Up When It Gets Cold
Cuffing Season. That magical time of year when the air gets crisp, the days get shorter, and suddenly everyone’s on the hunt for someone to share a blanket—and maybe a Netflix password—with.
If you’ve noticed that your inbox starts buzzing with “Hey, stranger…” texts as soon as the leaves begin to fall, congratulations—you’ve officially entered cuffing season.
While the memes about cuffing season might make you chuckle, a lot is happening behind the scenes. So, grab your pumpkin spice latte, and let’s dive into what makes cuffing season such a big deal.
The Self-Control Paradox: Why Wanting More Self-Control Is Like Wishing for a Million Dollars Right After You’ve Gone Broke
Ah, the irony. The tricky thing about the desire for self-control is that it tends to arrive at the worst possible moment, like a surprise bill after a splurge or the sudden realization that you might need a gym membership while struggling to lift your grocery bags.
Research shows that our thirst for self-control peaks precisely when our reserves are at rock bottom. So, just when you need to channel your inner zen master, your self-control is off somewhere taking a nap.
From Hookup Culture to Neo-Prudism: Are We Witnessing a Return to Romantic Restraint?
The conversation around hookup culture, particularly in the context of feminism, has dominated discussions on modern relationships.
But could we be on the cusp of a cultural shift that sees a new prude ethos emerging, one that challenges the casual sexual norms of today?
As a couples therapist, this possibility isn't just intriguing—it's essential to understand the changing dynamics that could reshape how intimacy and commitment are approached in the coming years.
Scientists Prove Alfred Hitchcock Right: The Art of Freaking Out Over Nothing
Anticipation is the name of the game, folks. The great Alfred Hitchcock, who made us all paranoid about birds, showers, and mysterious strangers, was onto something far deeper than just cheap thrills.
Thanks to a group of researchers at the University of California, Davis, we now have scientific proof that waiting for something bad to happen is often way more terrifying than the actual event.
In other words, Hitchcock wasn’t just scaring you—he was practically a prophet of anxiety.
Let’s dive into this horror story turned scientific study, where the researchers decided to play a little game with human anxiety—because why not?
How Your Brain Falls In Love
Our brains are wild when it comes to love.
It turns out that when you're cozying up with your partner to watch a tear-jerker or a horror flick, your brains might be more in sync than you think—literally!
Recent research published in NeuroImage reveals that romantic couples show greater synchronization in both behavior and brain activity compared to their close friends when watching emotional videos together.
So, while your BFF might understand your love for pineapple on pizza, it's your partner who's really vibing with your brainwaves.
What is Vulnerable Narcissism?
What is a Vulnerable Narcissist?
Narcissism is often seen through the lens of grandiosity, where individuals display an inflated sense of self-importance, entitlement, and a need for constant admiration.
However, narcissism is more complex and multifaceted than just grandiose behavior. One of the less overt, but equally significant, forms of narcissism is vulnerable narcissism.
Vulnerable narcissism, also known as covert narcissism, presents with a different set of behaviors and emotional patterns, which often make it less recognizable but no less impactful.
Neo-Prudism vs. Hookup Culture: A Cultural Shift with Deep Implications
In recent years, a fascinating cultural shift has been slowly and quietly gaining momentum—neo-prudism.
This emerging trend represents a pushback against the pervasive hookup culture that has dominated the social landscape, for over a decade, particularly among younger generations.
But what exactly is neo-prudism, and why is it gaining traction now?
Let’s dive into the nuances of this slow-moving idea explore its roots in evolutionary psychology and feminist thought, and consider what its rise might mean for society at large.
What is a Lawnmower Parent?
Lawnmower parenting, sometimes referred to as "bulldozer parenting," is a relatively recent term in the landscape of modern parenting styles.
It gained popularity around 2018 when an anonymous teacher's viral blog post described parents who go to great lengths to prevent their children from facing any adversity, challenge, or discomfort.
These parents "mow down" any obstacles in their child’s path, ensuring that life is as smooth and easy as possible.
Digital Parent vs. Analog Parent
Parenting has always been influenced by the cultural and technological context of the time, but today’s generational divide is particularly striking.
The distinction between "Analog Parents" and "Digital Parents" represents more than just an age gap—it reflects a deep-seated difference in values, worldviews, and approaches to raising children.
This generational "personality" clash is shaping individual parenting styles and profoundly redefining family dynamics and intergenerational relationships.
What is Free-Range Parenting?
Free-range parenting is a term that describes a parenting style emphasizing children's independence, self-reliance, and resilience.
Unlike more controlling parenting styles, free-range parents allow their children to explore the world with minimal supervision, encouraging them to make decisions and learn from their experiences.