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The Gottman relationship checkup and other relationship questions
Couples Therapists are often uncomfortable when discussing power…their own power, that is.
That’s why who you choose to work with is so critical.
The Gottman Relationship Checklist and similar assessment tools will help keep your therapist in their own lane…
Secret to Feeling 10 Years Younger: It's All About This Simple Habit…
Imagine feeling a decade younger in just two days. It might sound like a dream, but according to a groundbreaking study conducted in a sleep lab, getting enough sleep can make this dream a reality.
The research reveals that adequate sleep isn't just about feeling refreshed—it's a crucial factor in feeling and looking younger.
How to manage an Asperger’s Meltdown
From a neurotypical (NT) point of view, an Asperger’s meltdown is when an Aspie experiences a temporary loss of emotional control.
It is a state of profound overwhelm in which no new information can be processed.
They typically don’t last long and are often due to specific stimuli such as excess external stimulation, compounding stressors, or abrupt and significant change. Here’s what you need to know…
Can Money Buy Happiness? The Surprising Link Between Money, Time, and Well-Being
A hot off the press research paper by an international research team has concluded that you really can make yourself happier by paying other people to do your time-consuming chores.
Unlike the hit you get from a new car smell, freeing up more time positively impacts your daily mood...
9 Essential pathways to rebuilding trust with your betrayed spouse
Are you rebuilding trust with your partner after a messy affair? If that’s the case, good for you!
Here are 9 ways to know you’re on track…
8 steps to recognizing gaslighting in a relationship
The kind of gaslighting we see in couples therapy is typically a relentless pattern of deception, unreasonable criticism, mean-spirited scrutiny, and contemptuous verbal aggression.
But gaslighting, like other forms of emotional abuse, occurs on a broad continuum.
The milder forms often respond to science-based couples therapy, but extreme gaslighting is typically far more problematic…
How to get over an affair partner… The grief of the involved partner
Getting over an affair partner is an uphill battle.
You want to return to your marriage, but you also need to know how to get over your affair partner.
The grief of the "unfaithful" involved partner is one of the most delicate issues in couples therapy.
Understanding Limerence and the need for a cure…
What is limerence? Limerence is an emotional and mental state of deep, obsessive attachment to another person.
It often feels involuntary and is marked by an intense craving for reciprocity.
Why can limerence symptoms become so problematic that a limerence cure is necessary?
Hopeful spouse…couples therapy for one
Unlike the sh*t show of “value-neutral” and “growth-focused” individual therapy, new studies now show that spouses who receive critical relationship-skills training in Hopeful Spouse Coaching will see just as much improvement in their relationships as if they both were in couples therapy.
Yeah.. there is such a thing as “couples therapy for one.”
Why do women cheat?
Because women are always “checking the thermostat” of their relational bond, they are less likely to endure circumstances that are severely and chronically unsatisfactory.
This fundamental difference between unfaithful men and women creates complications in couples therapy.
Women are far more likely to engage in exit affairs to cushion the collapse of their marriage…here’s why…
How to Stay Stuck in Couples Therapy: A Guide for the Hopelessly Unyielding
You want to run the clock in couples therapy but you don’t know how?
Let’s face it. Couples Therapy is just a giant irritation.
Your partner, the therapist, flat-out expects way too much from you and refuses to accept the fact that you are already doing the best you can.
You can never make them happy anyway …so what’s the use?
How Neuroticism and Introversion Interact to Produce Chronic Anxiety
As a marriage and family therapist, I often see how intertwined our personality traits are with our mental health.
For those grappling with both neuroticism and introversion, the journey can be especially challenging.
Research indicates that folks who exhibit both of these traits are more susceptible to chronic anxiety problems…