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What Saint Joseph of Cupertino Teaches Us About Belonging

In the curious pantheon of Roman Catholic saints, few are as peculiar—or as profoundly instructive to family therapy—as St. Joseph of Cupertino (1603–1663).

Known as the "Flying Saint," Joseph was a Franciscan friar who reportedly levitated during prayer.

But before he became a celestial wonder, he was a bumbling, ridiculed, and unwanted man—a man who, by all worldly measures, should have been cast aside.

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Radical Honesty and the Limits of Human Connection

Radical Honesty, as an idea, taps into the modern longing for authenticity.

It offers a seductive promise: that if we just tell the unvarnished truth, our relationships will be stronger, our inner conflicts will dissolve, and our lives will be free from the psychic burden of deception.

But Radical Honesty is not just a communication strategy; it is a worldview—one that assumes truth can be spoken without distortion, that vulnerability is always constructive, and that the self is best understood through unfiltered externalization.

In this critique, we will go beyond social niceties and relational harm—let’s probe the nature of truth, selfhood, morality, and human connection.

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From Childhood Shadows to Workplace Struggles: How Early Emotional Abuse Shapes Power and Conflict in Professional Life

Workplaces are not just sites of productivity; they are social environments where past experiences, particularly childhood trauma, can shape interpersonal dynamics.

A recent study by Liu, Xu, and Yao (2024) published in Personality and Individual Differences explores how childhood emotional abuse influences workplace interactions, particularly among employees driven by a strong desire for power.

Their findings suggest that unresolved emotional wounds from childhood may spill over into professional relationships, contributing to workplace conflict and social exclusion.

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The Science of Niceness: Why Being Kind Makes You Happier (and Less of a Grump)

Ever wondered why some people seem to radiate joy while others walk around looking like they’ve just bitten into a lemon?

Science may have cracked the code, and it turns out, it all comes down to one simple trait: niceness.

Yes, that old-fashioned virtue your grandma swore by is more than just good manners—it’s a distinct psychological trait, and according to research, it’s strongly linked to happiness.

So if you’re looking for an easy mood booster (that doesn’t require expensive supplements or hours of meditation), start by being a little nicer.

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The Moral Chemistry of Oxytocin: How the 'Love Hormone' Shapes Our Sense of Right and Wrong

What if the key to a more ethical world was already nestled inside our brains? A new study published in Molecular Psychiatry suggests that oxytocin—often called the "love hormone"—may play a significant role in our moral compass.

Researchers found that administering oxytocin via a nasal spray increased feelings of guilt and shame, making folks less willing to harm others, even when such harm could lead to greater benefits.

This stands in stark contrast to vasopressin, another neuropeptide involved in social behavior, which showed no such effects.

These findings suggest that oxytocin could influence not just our social interactions but our fundamental moral decisions, potentially offering new pathways for understanding psychiatric conditions that involve deficits in moral reasoning.

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Science Confirms: Yes, There’s a Butt Crack Bias

In the ever-evolving quest to understand human attraction, a new study published in Aesthetic Plastic Surgery has confirmed what many have long suspected: when people look at a female butt, their eyes are magnetically drawn to one place first—the intergluteal cleft, better known as the infamous butt crack.

Because this research is so vital for understanding the course of human destiny, researchers, (using eye-tracking technology), analyzed the subconscious visual habits of men and women when presented with images of female buttocks.

The findings? No matter the gender, people just can’t help but take a peek at the crack.

However, men and women have slightly different preferences when it comes to other rear-end details.

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Psychedelics and the Mystery of Death: How Transcendent Experiences Diminish Fear

For as long as humans have been aware of their mortality, we have sought ways to soften the existential weight of death.

Some turn to religion, others to philosophy, and some—according to recent research—find solace in the transformative power of psychedelics.

A groundbreaking study published in the Journal of Psychoactive Drugs suggests that folks who use psychedelic substances report significantly lower levels of death anxiety, not because of the substances themselves, but because of the profound, transcendent experiences they facilitate.

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The Power of Touch: How Supportive Gestures Can Boost Self-Esteem and Reduce Stress

When life throws challenges our way, support from friends and loved ones can make all the difference.

Whether it’s a kind word, a reassuring hug, or a simple pat on the back, these gestures help us navigate difficult moments.

A recent study published in the Journal of Nonverbal Behavior explores the impact of supportive touch and verbal encouragement on self-esteem, self-efficacy, and emotional well-being.

Words of Comfort vs. A Hug: What Works Best?

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3 Cognitive Biases That Are Keeping Us Poor and Weak

We like to think we’re rational creatures—masters of our fate, captains of our soul, and all that.

But the truth is, most of our decisions aren’t made through cool, calculated logic.

Instead, we are heavily influenced by cognitive biases—deeply ingrained mental shortcuts that shape our choices without us even realizing it.

Some biases are helpful.

They evolved to keep us alive in a dangerous world where quick decision-making could mean the difference between life and death.

But in our modern environment, a few of these biases are exploited by Limbic Capitalism to work against us, leading us to make impulsive financial choices, avoiding personal growth, and settling for soul-crushing mediocrity.

If you’re feeling stuck, broke, or weak and ineffective, these three cognitive biases might be quietly running the show.

Let’s break them down—and more importantly, learn how to override them for a stronger, wealthier, and more resilient life (btw, I wish I learned this stuff in my profligate youth).

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Liminal Anxiety: The Emotional Toll of Life's In-Between Spaces

What Is Liminal Anxiety?

Liminal anxiety is the unease, uncertainty, and emotional turbulence that arise in transitional life phases. The term "liminal" comes from the Latin word limen, meaning "threshold"—a fitting metaphor for moments when we are no longer who we were, but not yet who we will become.

These in-between spaces—career changes, breakups, relocations, personal transformations—are often filled with self-doubt, instability, and fear of the unknown.

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The Science of Staying Single: Are Lifelong Singles Secretly Winning at Life?

For most of human history, staying single for life was about as common as a unicorn sighting.

Sure, maybe a lone monk here or an eccentric aunt there, but generally, society expected you to find a mate, reproduce, and keep the species chugging along.

Fast-forward to today, and lifelong singlehood isn’t just a niche lifestyle—it’s a full-blown societal trend.

But this raises some awkward questions.

If enough people decide that relationships are more hassle than they’re worth, will humanity eventually go extinct? And, more importantly, are lifelong singles actually happier than the poor souls trudging through married life?

Let’s dig into the research and find out whether lifelong singlehood is the secret to happiness—or the first sign of civilization’s demise.

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The Tree of Life in Narrative Therapy: Can It Help the Rootless?

The Tree of Life is a widely used tool in Narrative Therapy, designed to help people explore their identity, strengths, and personal history using the metaphor of a tree.

Created by David Denborough and Ncazelo Ncube-Mlilo, this approach encourages individuals to reflect on their roots (past and culture), trunk (skills and values), branches (hopes and dreams), leaves (support systems), and storms (challenges)—all in a way that highlights resilience and growth.

Sounds lovely, right?

But what happens when someone feels completely disconnected from their roots?

When the past doesn’t feel like a source of strength but rather a tangled mess—or worse, a void?

Can the Tree of Life still be helpful for someone who feels placeless, adrift, or even cut off from their past?

Let’s explore both the power and the potential limitations of this intervention, with an honest look at where it shines—and where it might need a few modifications.

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