Welcome to The Neurodivergent Devil’s Dictionary, a whimsical guide to the mind's most wonderful quirks and complexities.

Herein lies a few mischievous definitions, where the terms are familiar but the meanings spin with neurodivergent charm.

Imagine a dictionary reassembled by a troupe of unruly neurons, each one eager to add a bit of mischief, a touch of magic, and a dash of defiance to every definition.

Here, you’ll encounter words that shapeshift under the lens of ADHD, autism, dyslexia, and beyond, where "routine" means anything but, and "focus" is more like a feisty game of hide and seek.

Let visit a world where every neurodivergent experience finds its fitting twist, weaving humor, truth, and perhaps a bit of mischief into each entry.

Ever wonder why so many female gamers choose to play as characters that don’t quite match their ideals?

Why, even while grumbling about unrealistic beauty standards, they’re opting for those sultry, scantily clad warriors?

It turns out, recent research has taken a dive into this paradox and brought up some fascinating insights.

The findings might make you question: are we genuinely aware of our preferences, or are we just stuck in a loop of prepackaged ideals?

Here’s a look into the strange reality of choice in video game characters and how these preferences may affect perceptions of femininity, strength, and—surprisingly—identity.

Parenting as a neurodivergent individual comes with unique challenges and opportunities, especially when raising neurodivergent children.

With thoughtful strategies, neurodivergent parents can build a nurturing environment that respects both their children’s needs and their own.

This post offfers 12 research-backed tips for neurodivergent parents, designed to foster understanding, confidence, and resilience.

Transitions can be challenging for anyone, but for kids with autism, shifting from one activity or environment to another can be especially overwhelming.

Transition objects and sensory tools offer a practical and comforting way to ease these changes, creating a sense of predictability and security.

Whether it’s a favorite toy that brings comfort or a visual timer that makes time tangible, these tools provide valuable support for managing the sensory and emotional demands of the day.

Let’s explore how transition objects, sensory tools, and simple routines can make life smoother and more enjoyable for kidos on the autism spectrum.

Autistic inertia—a concept gaining recognition within autism research—describes a significant challenge faced by many autistic people: the difficulty of starting, stopping, or switching tasks.

It’s more than procrastination or being "stuck"; autistic inertia can be deeply rooted in the way an autistic person’s brain processes task initiation and state transitions, often making even simple actions feel overwhelming or out of reach without external assistance​ (Frontiers) (Cambridge Repository).

Let’s explore what autistic inertia entails, how it impacts daily life, and how we can support those affected with understanding and compassion.

Sleep can be elusive for many individuals on the autism spectrum, with studies indicating that up to 80% of autistic children experience sleep disturbances (Cortesi et al., 2012).

These challenges aren’t simply about being "bad sleepers." Instead, the nature of autism itself presents specific, often complex obstacles that make restful sleep hard to achieve.

Life on the autism spectrum brings about some uniquely delightful quirks that others might not fully understand, yet each one adds its own twist to personality and perspective.

Here’s a deeper dive into some common quirks that often bring smiles, curiosity, and insight.

Along with these observations, I’ll share relevant research that sheds light on each unique trait. Let’s dive in!

Cheating may be one of the oldest relationship dilemmas, but the way people define, experience, and meme about it has evolved significantly over time.

Each generation, from Boomers to Gen Z, has shaped its own narrative around loyalty, trust, and boundaries, often reflecting broader social and technological shifts.

For a couples therapist, understanding these generational views can provide insight into how couples today approach fidelity and navigate its potential breaches.

Let’s take a closer look at how Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z approach infidelity, both online and offline.

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is often associated with cognitive traits like analytical thinking, a focus on detail, and sometimes a preference for factual over subjective information.

These traits have led researchers to wonder whether autistic folks might be less likely to believe in conspiracy theories due to a stronger skepticism towards unverified claims.

However, the Amsterdam study presents an intriguing contradiction: the cognitive differences linked to autism did not translate to a significant variance in conspiracy mentality compared to the general population.

Infidelity can create seismic shifts in relationships, altering both partners' emotional landscapes and rippling out to affect the entire family system.

While betrayal causes pain and can undermine trust, it also forces both partners—and sometimes their children—into a new phase of self-reflection and relational change.

As Esther Perel, a leading voice on modern relationships, states, “Affairs are way less about sex and a lot more about desire: desire for attention, desire to feel special, desire to feel important.”

Understanding how infidelity changes both partners involves exploring the intricate ways it reshapes their self-perceptions, communication, and the family dynamics they inhabit.

Have you ever met a child who seems remarkably intelligent but is slow to start talking? While other kids might already be chatting up a storm, your little one is more interested in puzzles, numbers, or even how the vacuum cleaner works. If this sounds familiar, you might have encountered what Thomas Sowell calls Einstein Syndrome. Named after Albert Einstein—the genius physicist who famously didn’t speak until almost four years old—this concept explores a unique path in child development that often leaves parents and professionals puzzled.

But before we start labeling every late-talker as a future Nobel laureate, let’s dive into what Einstein Syndrome really is, how it differs from other developmental conditions, and why it remains a hot topic of discussion. In this post, we’ll explore the musings of Thomas Sowell, experts like Stephen Camarata, and the broader field of child development.

Autism love languages?

Absolutely.

We’ve all heard of the standard ones—words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch, quality time, and receiving gifts (Chapman, 1995).

But those are just the basics.

When it comes to love, autistic partners have developed some fantastic, customized ways to show affection.

Drawing from the research of thought leaders like Dr. Tony Attwood and Dr. Temple Grandin, let's decode these lesser-known love languages with a touch of humor and a lot of understanding.