Cheating may be one of the oldest relationship dilemmas, but the way people define, experience, and meme about it has evolved significantly over time.

Each generation, from Boomers to Gen Z, has shaped its own narrative around loyalty, trust, and boundaries, often reflecting broader social and technological shifts.

For a couples therapist, understanding these generational views can provide insight into how couples today approach fidelity and navigate its potential breaches.

Let’s take a closer look at how Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z approach infidelity, both online and offline.

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is often associated with cognitive traits like analytical thinking, a focus on detail, and sometimes a preference for factual over subjective information.

These traits have led researchers to wonder whether autistic folks might be less likely to believe in conspiracy theories due to a stronger skepticism towards unverified claims.

However, the Amsterdam study presents an intriguing contradiction: the cognitive differences linked to autism did not translate to a significant variance in conspiracy mentality compared to the general population.

Infidelity can create seismic shifts in relationships, altering both partners' emotional landscapes and rippling out to affect the entire family system.

While betrayal causes pain and can undermine trust, it also forces both partners—and sometimes their children—into a new phase of self-reflection and relational change.

As Esther Perel, a leading voice on modern relationships, states, “Affairs are way less about sex and a lot more about desire: desire for attention, desire to feel special, desire to feel important.”

Understanding how infidelity changes both partners involves exploring the intricate ways it reshapes their self-perceptions, communication, and the family dynamics they inhabit.

Have you ever met a child who seems remarkably intelligent but is slow to start talking? While other kids might already be chatting up a storm, your little one is more interested in puzzles, numbers, or even how the vacuum cleaner works. If this sounds familiar, you might have encountered what Thomas Sowell calls Einstein Syndrome. Named after Albert Einstein—the genius physicist who famously didn’t speak until almost four years old—this concept explores a unique path in child development that often leaves parents and professionals puzzled.

But before we start labeling every late-talker as a future Nobel laureate, let’s dive into what Einstein Syndrome really is, how it differs from other developmental conditions, and why it remains a hot topic of discussion. In this post, we’ll explore the musings of Thomas Sowell, experts like Stephen Camarata, and the broader field of child development.

Autism love languages?

Absolutely.

We’ve all heard of the standard ones—words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch, quality time, and receiving gifts (Chapman, 1995).

But those are just the basics.

When it comes to love, autistic partners have developed some fantastic, customized ways to show affection.

Drawing from the research of thought leaders like Dr. Tony Attwood and Dr. Temple Grandin, let's decode these lesser-known love languages with a touch of humor and a lot of understanding.

Imagine growing up with a crown placed on your head, constantly praised, celebrated, and seen as the family's shining star. While it might sound like a dream, the role of the golden child often comes with hidden costs, leaving deep emotional wounds.

The term golden child narcissism captures a complex dynamic where excessive praise and idealization lead to a distorted self-image, creating a person who struggles with boundaries, empathy, and self-worth.

Navigating life with AuADHD—a blend of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)—creates a set of experiences that are both richly complex and uniquely challenging.

This intersection shapes how people interact with the world, their passions, and themselves. Let’s dive deeper into ten essential traits of AuADHD, offering insights grounded in research, with a warm and compassionate approach that recognizes the strengths as well as the struggles.

Dating someone on the autism spectrum brings opportunities for connection that are as unique as they are meaningful.

While traditional date ideas might not always suit the sensory needs and communication styles of autistic folks, adapting your approach can create deeper, more rewarding experiences.

This post will explore how to make date nights with an autistic partner truly special—from finding the right environment to understanding their emotional expression and valuing their straightforward honesty.

With a focus on empathy, patience, and genuine interest, you can build a relationship that celebrates each other’s differences and creates moments of joy.

We’ve all encountered the quirky genius—the type who knows everything about astrophysics but might struggle with, say, making small talk at a party.

This raises an interesting question: can a high IQ mask autism, making it hard for even the sharpest eyes to spot? The answer is yes.

But there’s a lot more to it, as the relationship between intelligence and autistic traits reveals. Let’s dig into this topic with a solid grounding in research.

Ever look back on your childhood and think, "Ah, that's why I did that"?

If you’re on the autism spectrum, those quirks and habits that puzzled everyone—maybe even you—might finally be adding up.

Now that you’ve got a name for them, those past experiences suddenly seem... well, less "weird" and more "uniquely you."

Let’s take a fun, hopeful stroll down memory lane with these 10 traits that baffled others back then but make perfect sense now, all backed by science.

We all know that feeling when stress hits: heart racing, palms sweaty, mind racing through your to-do list at warp speed.

For some, it's sheer panic.

But for others, particularly some folks with ADHD, it’s like a magical door swings open, revealing their inner superhero.

A new study suggests that for some people with ADHD, periods of high stress aren’t just manageable—they’re actually where they thrive.

As a couples therapist, I often see parallels between the challenges faced by my clients and those encountered by athletes on their journey to success.

This post explores the unique experiences of athletes—categorized as "Super Champions," "Champions," and "Almosts"—as they navigate the winding path to the top of their sports.

Understanding these differences offers insight into the resilience, psychological fortitude, and mindset that can make or break success, whether on the playing field or in relationships.