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The science of asking for a favor
Ever hesitated to ask for a favor, fearing rejection or revealing your own insecurities? You're not alone. But here's the kicker: you're actually 50% more persuasive than you think!
Why? Psychological research shows we often underestimate our persuasive powers. People comply with our requests far more often than we imagine.
How to remove 5 years of brain aging with this simple hack
Imagine if you could turn back the clock on your brain by simply investing one hour a week in aerobic workouts.
Sounds like a dream, right?
Well, research has found that short aerobic workouts can provide an immense boost to your memory and thinking skills, effectively removing 5 years of brain aging.
The importance of a softened start-up
John Gottman’s 1999 study, Predicting Divorce among Newlyweds from the First Three Minutes of a Marital Conflict, was a landmark event in couples therapy research.
Gottman discovered they could predict the likelihood of a couple’s divorce by observing just the first 3 minutes of a conflict discussion…
The 1 conflict resolution skill in marriage that you really need…
New research confirms something we sort of already knew. Conflict resolution skills in marriage are essential for success.
But because of new research, we now have a better appreciation of how important it actually is…
Involvement vs. commitment in a marriage
A recent longitudinal research project at the Relationship Institute at UCLA. has unpacked this important question.
The Marriage and Family Development Laboratory at UCLA has been conducting significant research on keeping marriages vibrant and strong for nearly 30 years.
What did they learn about commitment in a marriage?
Spice Up Your Relationship with Fun and Savoring
Hey lovebirds! Ready to kick boredom and dull routines to the curb? Let’s jazz up your relationship with two delightful psychological techniques: behavioral activation and savoring.
Think of these as the secret sauce to make your daily grind a whole lot tastier!
Picture this: instead of sinking into the sofa every evening, you and your partner dive into a pool of fun activities and then relive the joy like it's a favorite movie! Let’s learn more!
Research identifies 4 patterns of eating that impact your well-being.
People who eat a balanced diet have better mental health, cognitive function and overall well-being.
But how are we defining a balanced diet?
A healthy, balanced dietary pattern contains good amounts of fruits and vegetables, nuts, pulses, whole grains, moderate amounts of dairy, fish, and eggs, and a low intake of red meat and poultry.
Does wisdom protect against loneliness?
Research reveals that wisdom can significantly protect against loneliness.
Wise humans thrive on diverse viewpoints and are often sought after for their advice. Additionally, they possess the ability to filter negative emotions and make timely decisions.
But what does that have to do with loneliness?
Maximizing Motivation
Whether you’re aiming to excel in your career, improve your health, or achieve personal goals, maintaining momentum can feel like an uphill battle.
But fear not, gentle reader!
Here are 20 powerful psychological strategies to help you stay motivated.
From mindset changes and practice improvement tips to goal-setting hacks and social motivation, these methods are backed by research in the psychology of motivation. Dive in and discover how to turn your dreams into reality!
Navigating relationship transitions: deciding vs. sliding
The degree of skill you have in handling major relationship transitions will impact the outcome of those decisions and either enhance or degrade your capacity for a deep and lasting intimate connection…
The Intersection of Gottman Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and the Marital Teachings of the Bahá'í Faith
Two prominent approaches to relationship counseling stand out: Gottman Couples Therapy (GCT) and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT).
These methodologies offer robust frameworks for nurturing and repairing marital relationships.
Interestingly, the Bahá'í Faith, with its profound spiritual teachings, also provides timeless guidance on marriage.
Bored at work? Here’s why your job might be a snooze fest
Ever wonder why you’re bored out of your mind at work? Research reveals that most people's interests are miles away from their jobs. Surprise, surprise!
The study shows that the most popular work interest is ‘artistic’—think painting, writing, creating.
But here’s the kicker: only about 2% of jobs have anything remotely artistic about them. That's like putting a painter in a spreadsheet factory. No wonder 33 million Americans are stuck in a creative drought!