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What is the Gottman State of the Union Meeting?
The "Gottman State of the Union Meeting" is a crucial component of the Gottman Method, an evidence-based approach to relationship therapy developed by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman.
The method is renowned for its scientific grounding and effectiveness in improving relationship satisfaction and stability.
Let's Go Fart Walking: The joy and science of post-meal strolls
Sometimes you never know where your next great blog idea will come from.
Enter the “fart walk”—a delightful practice of taking a post-meal stroll to, quite literally, let things air out.
Mairlyn Smith, a Canadian actress and cook, introduced this concept on TikTok, and it has since become a viral sensation.
But is there more to fart walking than just a good laugh?
16 Traits for a more abundant life
As a science-based couples therapist, I’ve seen how deeply our personalities influence our life paths.
Your unique traits and tendencies can affect everything from your career to your health and happiness.
Let’s check out the science behind 16 personality traits and their impact on your life's outcomes.
Sex in your 40s
Sex in your 40s can be a richly fulfilling experience, offering opportunities to rediscover passion and deepen intimacy with your partner.
While this stage of life brings its own set of challenges, it also presents unique moments for enhanced pleasure and connection.
This post explores the various facets of sex in your 40s, enriched with insights from classic sex therapy.
The Wandering Mind: understanding its consolations, benefits, and treatments
Imagine you're in a meeting, and suddenly, you're daydreaming about that beach vacation or pondering life's mysteries. Your mind has taken a detour — a phenomenon known as mind wandering.
Research indicates that up to half of our daily thoughts involve some form of mind wandering.
While this can be frustrating, it's not always a bad thing. Let's delve deeper into the symptoms, benefits, and potential treatments for a wandering mind.
Nutrient-rich diets linked to superior intelligence and memory
Let’s discuss the Nutrients that promote healthy brain aging.
As we grow older, cognitive decline is a common issue many face.
However, new research suggests that the right diet may help slow down or even prevent this age-related brain deterioration.
A recent study published in Nature Aging reveals that certain nutrients can significantly enhance brain structure, function, and cognitive abilities in older adults.
Cheap Date Night Ideas: fun, romantic, and wallet-friendly!
Who says romance needs to break the bank?
If you're looking to impress your partner without emptying your wallet, you're in the right place.
Here are some of the best cheap date night ideas that will make you laugh, love, and maybe even score some brownie points—all while keeping your budget intact.
Are German Shepherds good with kids?
German Shepherds are often lauded for their intelligence, loyalty, and versatility.
However, when considering them as family pets, especially in households with children, it is crucial to examine various factors from the perspective of a marriage and family therapist.
Do people really learn from their mistakes?
The Common Belief in Learning from Mistakes
There is a pervasive belief in the power of failure to teach valuable lessons. Business leaders often promote this notion, which is echoed in popular media.
It is a robust American trope.
The idea is that while failure is challenging, it ultimately fuels success.
However, recent research paints a different picture: people generally struggle to learn from their mistakes.
How to talk to your spouse about money without fighting
Money, they say, makes the world go round. But when it comes to discussing finances with your spouse, it can feel more like you’re spinning in circles—or worse, gearing up for a boxing match.
Fear not, gentle reader, for I, your trusty couples therapist, am here to guide you through the treacherous terrain of marital money talks.
With a pinch of humor and a dollop of research-backed advice, you'll be able to navigate these conversations without turning them into arguments. Let's dive in.
The mental health benefits of Yoga: better sleep, reduced depression and more
Yoga offers numerous mental health benefits in addition to its well-known physical advantages.
This is largely due to yoga's meditative aspect, which encourages participants to focus on their breathing.
One of the most popular styles in the West is Hatha yoga, an ancient practice that involves a series of postures, meditation, and focused breathing.
Despite the meaning of "Hatha" as "force" or "violence," the movements in this form of yoga are typically gentle and easy to learn.
Pessimism: the secret ingredient to procrastination
Ever wondered why your friend cleans the entire house when they have a looming deadline?
Well, it turns out, about 20% of people are chronic procrastinators—yes, it’s more common than depression and phobias.
So if you’re reading this to avoid something important, you’re in good company!