Infidelity can shatter the foundation of a relationship, leaving partners grappling with intense emotions and deep-seated questions.

In this post, we explore ten profound questions to ask your unfaithful spouse, drawing from the wisdom of renowned relationship expert Esther Perel.

These questions are designed to help you understand the betrayal and foster healing, growth, and a renewed connection.

Infidelity is a challenging and often painful issue in any relationship.

When intertwined with bipolar disorder, the dynamics can become even more complex.

Let’s explore the intricate relationship between infidelity and bipolar disorder, reviewing academic research to provide insights to help those affected navigate this difficult terrain.

Infidelity is one of the most challenging issues a relationship can face.

When a partner strays, the breach of trust can be profound and deeply painful.

However, understanding infidelity and forgiveness can help couples navigate this tumultuous terrain.

Let’s explore the psychological, social, and emotional aspects of infidelity, such as forgiveness, cultural narcissism, acceptance, forbearance, and the concept of inconsolability as described by John Gottman.

Infidelity is a challenging topic in any relationship, but when coupled with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), the complexities deepen.

PTSD, a mental health condition triggered by experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event, can significantly impact relationships, often leading to emotional and behavioral changes that contribute to infidelity.

Let’s explore the intricate relationship between PTSD and infidelity.

Testosterone, the primary male sex hormone, is often associated with virility, strength, and overall male vitality.

With the rise of testosterone replacement therapy (TRT), especially in the form of injections, there is increasing interest in understanding its broader impacts.

One area of concern is whether testosterone injections might influence behaviors related to infidelity.

Let’s discuss the research on testosterone injections and infidelity, examine the role of narcissism and body image, and see what we have got.

Infidelity is a plot device in storytelling that has been explored across cultures and eras. It reveals the complexities of human relationships.

Here’s my list of the top 20 movies about infidelity, each offering a unique perspective on this timeless issue.

I’ll briefly comment on each of these films. Plus, we'll see how cinema therapy might be a respected adjunct to traditional couples therapy.

Get your popcorn!

In the land of the free and the home of the brave, a rather unflattering trait has taken root: cultural narcissism.

This national self-obsession isn't just about Instagram selfies and TikTok dances—it's driving an entire industry dedicated to extramarital affairs.

Yes, you heard it right.

The infidelity industry is booming, catering to those whose narcissistic tendencies push them towards seeking validation outside their marriages. So, buckle up as we dive into the paradoxical world of American narcissism and its thriving infidelity business.

Ending an affair with a married man is a complex and emotionally charged process. It requires a deep understanding of personal boundaries, emotional resilience, and often, the support of professional guidance.

This post will discuss the essential steps to end such an affair, informed by social science research and expert insights on infidelity.

We will also explore the intricate dynamics when both parties in the affair are married and what recent research in the USA has revealed about such situations.

In the Split-Self Affair, the marriage must work for the sake of appearances, and appearance is everything.

These unions seamlessly function because they avoid the challenging work of nurturing a loving, emotional connection.

A Conflict Avoidant couple affair, like all affairs, has a straying spouse (we'll call them the involved partner or IP), and a hurt partner, who we'll call the HP).

Conflict-Avoidant couples can have either partner in the role of the Involved Partner.

The essential characteristic of Conflict Avoidant couples is a smothering blanket of civility and regulated courtesy…

sound familiar? read on…

The COVID-19 pandemic profoundly affected various aspects of life, including intimate relationships.

Recent observations suggest that patterns of infidelity in America have experienced notable shifts in the post-COVID era.

This post explores these trends, providing insights from couples therapy thought leaders to enhance our understanding.

In the aftermath of the disclosure or discovery of an affair, most couples are overwhelmed by pain, rage, and guilt. It’s typical for clients to contact me in the early days of affair disclosure.

“My husband cheated on me… now what?" is a question I often hear…