James F. Masterson, a pioneering figure in the field of psychoanalysis and personality disorders, introduced the concept of Self-Activation as a critical component in understanding and treating personality disorders, particularly Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

As a marriage and family therapist, it’s helpful to grasp Masterson’s ideas on self-activation to effectively support clients struggling on the continuum of these complex conditions.

What is Self-Activation?

James F. Masterson, a pioneering figure in the field of psychotherapy, left an indelible mark on the treatment of personality disorders.

His innovative theories, particularly concerning Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), have significantly influenced contemporary psychotherapeutic practices.

Masterson's contributions are widely recognized, yet his professional journey was not without controversy, notably his conflict with Jay Haley, another influential figure in psychotherapy.

This post considers Masterson's legacy, exploring his groundbreaking theories and his infamous clash with Jay Haley.

Contrary to common misconceptions, folks with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can experience meaningful change through dedicated therapy, according to Dr. Elinor Greenberg.

Elinor says that while it’s a challenging process requiring an extensive, long-term commitment, effective treatments do exist.

Here’s a closer look at the 10 stages involved in treating Narcissistic Personality Disorders, highlighting the potential for growth and transformation in her model.

Approximately 16% of people in the United States experience depression at some point in their lives.

New research reveals a startling connection: folks with the lowest quality relationships are at double the risk of developing depression.

Two critical relationship patterns contribute to this increased risk:

Having an unsupportive partner and having a partner under social strain.

Social strain often involves the pressures of working hard to achieve a certain lifestyle, such as owning a house, driving a nice car, or taking vacations.

One fascinating area of study is why some folks are more inclined to believe in conspiracy theories than others.

A recent study published in Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences suggests that childhood adversity plays a significant role. Let's dive into these intriguing findings.

I sometimes encounter questions about how past relationships impact present ones.

A recent study published in Sexuality & Culture dives deep into how people’s sexual histories affect how others perceive them.

The findings reveal some surprising insights into societal perceptions and the enduring power of the sexual double standard (SDS).

Recent research has revealed a troubling connection between high-fat diets and depression.

Fatty acids, when consumed in excess, enter the brain through the bloodstream and accumulate in the hypothalamus, a critical brain region that affects mood regulation.

This buildup interferes with brain signals associated with depression, providing insight into why obesity and depression often coexist.

In a groundbreaking study, mice were fed a diet consisting of 60% saturated and unsaturated fats.

After just three weeks, these mice exhibited signs of depressive behavior.

Greetings, gentle reader! Today, we're diving into the curious world of "dopamine fasting," a trend that might sound like it belongs in a sci-fi novel or a self-help seminar, but is, in fact, a real practice gaining traction in our hyper-connected, dopamine-drenched society.

Dopamine fasting is a practice in which folks intentionally avoid activities that trigger the release of dopamine, the brain's "feel-good" neurotransmitter.

The goal? To reset the brain's reward system, reduce dependence on instant gratification, and, ultimately, regain control over one's life and happiness.

Think of it as a mental detox or a digital sabbatical. But are we misunderstanding the science?

Infidelity is a complex and multifaceted issue that can devastate relationships. While physical and emotional infidelity are well-known, there's a deeper, often overlooked form of betrayal: spiritual infidelity.

As a science-based couples therapist with a spiritual bent, I've observed how this subtle, yet profound, breach can impact relationships in unique and challenging ways.

Depression and anxiety disorders are pervasive mental health challenges, but their treatment often falls short due to the diversity in symptoms and brain dysfunctions among patients.

Researchers at Stanford University have made a significant breakthrough by identifying six unique "biotypes" of depression and anxiety, using advanced brain imaging and computational techniques.

Public displays of affection, commonly referred to as PDAs, are physical acts of intimacy shown between partners in public.

These acts can range from holding hands to kissing and hugging.

PDAs are often viewed as a way for couples to express their affection and connection to each other, even when they are in the presence of others.

When the clock strikes midnight and you're still awake, you're entering a realm where your brain might not be at its best.

This phenomenon, known as the "Mind After Midnight Hypothesis," suggests that our brains become more prone to negative thoughts, risky behavior, and emotional instability during late-night hours.

This post explores what happens to your brain after midnight and why you might want to consider getting some sleep instead of binge-watching your favorite series or scrolling through social media.