Is aging a natural remedy for Narcissism?
April 18, 2024. This is for LG… who certainly hopes so!
Narcissists are often characterized by their inability to accept criticism gracefully, often reacting aggressively to negative feedback.
However, recent research suggests that as these folks age, their narcissistic tendencies tend to decrease…
How the study was conducted
A study involving 747 participants of various ages examined how narcissism changes over the lifespan.
The study found that as people grow older, they become less sensitive to criticism, less self-centered, and less inclined to impose their opinions on others.
Dr. William Chopik, the study's lead author, noted, "There's a common belief that each successive generation is becoming more narcissistic, but this study is the first to examine these trends across different generations and age groups simultaneously."
The research revealed that the decline in narcissism is most pronounced among young adults, especially when they enter the workforce. This shift is likely due to adulthood's new responsibilities and experiences, such as forming new relationships, starting a family, and considering one's legacy.
Dr. Chopik explained, "Life events such as receiving feedback, ending a relationship, or experiencing tragedy can challenge individuals to reassess their self-perceptions. As people age, they begin to realize that the world does not revolve around them."
Interestingly, the study also found that folks born earlier in the century tended to exhibit higher levels of narcissistic traits, such as hypersensitivity and willfulness, compared to more recent generations.
As Baby Boomers continue to age, understanding the impact of generational differences on narcissism becomes increasingly important.
The findings of this study, published in the journal Psychology and Aging (Chopik & Grimm, 2019), shed light on the complex relationship between age and narcissism. As humans mature, they often become more attuned to the needs and perspectives of others, leading to a gradual decline in narcissistic tendencies.
Many of my clients dealing with self-absorbed parents might take some hope from this study.
Be Well , Stay KInd, and Godspeed.
RESEARCH:
Chopik, W. J., & Grimm, K. J. (2019). Longitudinal changes and historic differences in narcissism from adolescence to older adulthood. Psychology and Aging, 34(8), 1109–1123. https://doi.org/10.1037/pag0000379
