Textbook Narcissism and Donald Trump's Narcissistic Collapse

Wednesday, September 11, 2024. Revisited 11/13/24. This has aged well. He was at his worst at the end. Let’s how his Second Act will unfold.

I met a traveller from an antique land
Who said: Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert.

Near them, on the sand,
Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose frown,
And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked them and the heart that fed:

And on the pedestal these words appear:

"My name is Ozymandias, King of Kings:
Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!"
No thing beside remains.

Round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away.

— Percy Shelley, "Ozymandias", 1819 edition

When we discuss someone like Donald Trump through the lens of "textbook narcissism," we’re referring to a set of well-documented patterns that shape how folks with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) react to stress, failure, or challenges to their grandiose self-image.

One of the most dramatic consequences of these challenges is what's called narcissistic collapse—a state where the individual's usual defenses begin to unravel, leaving them emotionally exposed and vulnerable. This is a moment of reckoning, both for the person themselves and for those observing them.

For Donald Trump, as the external pressures mount—whether through legal battles, political losses, or shifts in public opinion—his likely arc of behavior for the rest of the year might follow certain key psychological patterns.

These behaviors are grounded in well-established social science research on narcissism and personality disorders, and they provide us with a deeper understanding of how someone in his position might respond to a world that feels increasingly hostile.

Escalation of Defensiveness and Aggression

In narcissistic collapse, one of the most common responses is an overwhelming defensiveness.

This goes beyond a simple unwillingness to admit fault; rather, it manifests as an intensification of attacks on perceived enemies.

Research has shown that narcissists, when their inflated self-image is threatened, will often engage in extreme blame-shifting, lashing out at anyone they believe might be responsible for their downfall (Morf & Rhodewalt, 2001).

In Trump’s case, this might look like heightened aggression in his public statements—whether on social media or in speeches. The targets could be political opponents, the legal system, or even former allies. This is a mechanism designed to externalize the fault and protect his fragile ego from facing internal reflection.

A Desperate Need for Validation

Narcissistic folks have a profound need for admiration. This is often referred to as "narcissistic supply," the constant feed of attention, praise, and validation they require to maintain their self-esteem.

According to research by Campbell and Foster (2007), when narcissists face a crisis, their need for this supply increases exponentially.

For Trump, this might translate into more frequent public appearances, rallies, or media engagements where he can receive direct affirmation from his loyal base. The feedback loop of praise serves as a temporary salve for the ego wounds inflicted by his perceived failures.

Deterioration of Close Relationships

As the pressure mounts, another hallmark of narcissistic collapse is the breakdown of interpersonal relationships. Narcissists often struggle to maintain meaningful connections, especially when those around them are no longer serving their need for admiration or enabling their behavior (Ronningstam, 2016).

In Trump’s case, this could manifest as alienating even those closest to him—whether they are political confidants, family members, or business allies. The risk here is that as his inner circle shrinks, his paranoia and feelings of persecution grow, further escalating his aggressive behavior.

Social science has long highlighted this dynamic: when narcissists lose support, they tend to blame the very people who were once their most ardent defenders (Ronningstam, 2016).

Seeking Revenge or Vindication

Another possible arc is Trump’s inclination toward revenge. When someone with NPD feels humiliated or betrayed, they often become consumed with fantasies of getting even.

This aligns with research on the vindictiveness that can arise when narcissistic personalities feel they’ve lost control (Bushman & Baumeister, 1998).

Trump’s legal battles could become a prime arena for this, as he seeks not just to defend himself but to actively attack and discredit those he sees as responsible for his current predicaments. This revenge-seeking behavior is not uncommon in narcissists and may play out publicly in legal and political arenas as the year unfolds.

Vulnerability and Public Meltdowns

Beneath the grandiose facade, narcissists are often deeply insecure, and during times of collapse, they may display surprising moments of vulnerability. This is not genuine self-reflection, but rather an emotional appeal aimed at evoking sympathy.

Trump may attempt to portray himself as a victim of unjust treatment, a tactic often employed by those with NPD to manipulate public perception (Ronningstam, 2005).

Research indicates that when faced with ego-threatening situations, narcissists may retreat into self-pity or adopt a "martyr" stance to garner support (Pincus et al., 2009). This self-victimization could be part of Trump’s public narrative in the coming months as he seeks to maintain relevance and secure sympathy from his base.

The Possibility of Withdrawal

While narcissists rarely disappear from the public eye completely, severe emotional stress can lead to periods of withdrawal.

As Trump faces insurmountable challenges, we might see moments where he temporarily retreats, perhaps to regroup or recalibrate his approach.

This kind of behavior is not uncommon in narcissists who are overwhelmed by a crisis; they may withdraw, only to reemerge with renewed efforts to regain control (Miller et al., 2011). However, Trump’s instinctual need for the limelight may make any withdrawal brief, followed by attempts to reassert his dominance on the public stage.

Predicting Trump’s Behavior

As a therapist observing Donald Trump’s arc of behavior, it seems likely that he will continue to cycle through these predictable patterns. Aggression, defensiveness, and blame-shifting will likely dominate his public persona, while he privately seeks new sources of validation and support.

Relationships may deteriorate further, especially as the pressures on him mount, and there may be an increasing tendency to seek vindication or even revenge. Moments of paradoxical public vulnerability could emerge, though these are likely to be intentionally strategic rather than genuine reflections of personal growth or accountability.

Understanding these behaviors through the lens of narcissistic collapse allows us to predict not just how Trump might react, but also how those around him—his supporters, allies, and opponents—are likely to be affected.

As with many folks experiencing narcissistic collapse, the stakes are high, and the outcome is unpredictable. However, the underlying dynamics of narcissism provide us with a roadmap for what is most likely to unfold.

Be Well, Stay Kind, and Godspeed.

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